We're all aware that conservatives have spent (and around the world are still spending) a lot of time and attention to dig into people's sexual preferences and threaten people with death or bodily harm or loss of their jobs because of those preferences.
Leftists are now commonly making sexuality a front and center issue for almost everything. Nobody can be reasonably blamed or shamed for having opinions about one's sexual preference when the person in question literally makes his or her sexual preferences a core of his or her identity.
I do think that I'm right on this issue in saying that your work life should be your work life and your sex life should only matter to you and your potential partners and close friends.
Even a friend of mine in DC said that my ex-girlfriend and I would make a great couple without realizing that we had already been together for four years. That's how devoted I am to keeping my sex life out of the workplace.
Unless you're among my closest personal friends, you don't know who I'm dating. You won't know who I'm dating. I'll never tell you who I'm dating or if I'm dating anybody. It shouldn't matter in most contexts.
I'll talk about previous relationships if they're relevant to something that I've learned and I do try to learn everything from anybody who is, or has ever been, close to me. Still, notice that I've never named names.
Seriously, audit my posts and try to find a moment when I've named a girlfriend or a boyfriend or a non-binary partner or whatever (although I will say that I'm only attracted to women), you won't find it because I never have.
Sexual desire shouldn't be a defining factor in a person's life. Sexual activity shouldn't be a defining factor in a person's life. Unless consent isn't a factor in sex (as a professor at Yale keeps insisting) or you're into kids, we really shouldn't care that much and you shouldn't care too much.