It is so easy to blame everyone else for what is going on in your life. It is so easy to blame your parents, your teachers, your friends, or someone else. But, I would really like to encourage you to let go of those feelings. It isn't easy, and often therapists are needed for you to let go of wounds from the past. But, one thing is sure... if you are stuck in the past and in wounds from the past, you will have a way harder time living and enjoying life in the present!
And even more, if you live with those wounds, you are forming your own future to continue in the same way. But, if you take action and try to heal those wounds, then you are forming a future that can go on without those wounds.
YOu are not supposed to live in the past, instead, you are supposed to shape your own future. Get rid of those problems and wounds, and start living in the present, and shape your future in the present. Forgive people who have hurt you, even though you might not feel as if they deserve your forgiveness. Do you know why you need to forgive? Because lack of forgivness will turn into your own prison. It will keep you captive, not the person who hurt you.
So, let go of those wounds and start living in the present instead! Start having a good time, and at the same time, think about where you would like to be in the future. Start to shape your future. If you want to go somewhere, let nobody hinder you on that road. What do I mean?
You are responsible for your life! Do you know what that means? You need to shape your future and to what needs to be done in order for you to reach your goals. Don't sit around at an age of 60 blaming everyone else for what has happened in your life and for what hasn't happened in your life. It is your life, and you need to take action!