Alright, let me keep this answer simple and to the point.
Have you ever wondered why we don’t count the 9 months spent into our mothers’ womb ?
This fact has been troubling me everyday. I want to include those 9 months to my age. If you spent only 7 months then you can add it too.
Also, at birth your parents give you a name which they like. A real name is the one which doesn’t have any meaning behind it. If it does then you represent a thing and not a person.
Now what’s the purpose of having a name in the first place ? What happen if you came across someone who has got the same name as you ?! Or you still complaining that your parents gave you a name without featuring you.
This is when the question: Who are you ? is essential for you to understand. It’s not referring to your name. It’s about something beyond the person you think you are. Maybe the soul. Perhaps, you don’t even believe whether you have got a soul or not ?!
Relax. You are going to hurt your head if you ask too many questions at the same time. Take your time. Take deep breath and start using logic daily instead of being impulsive.