Why be kept secret? Because they fall in love.
Why was the household happy at the time?
Is it because of falling in love?
NO !! But as they continue: "BUILD LOVE".
Falling in love is easy, 10 minutes can also be. But BUILDING LOVE it took a lifetime.
Why fall in love?
Because at that time we are blind, mute and deaf to our partner's ugliness.
But when entering marriage, nothing can be covered again. With 24 hour interaction per day 7 days
in a week, all the lines are open.
Herein lies the difference between LOVE LOVE and BUILD LOVE.
Fall in love in a state of affection.
But BUILDING LOVE is needed in a state of annoyance.
In a state of annoyance, love is no longer a real embrace, but in the form of good faith understand
conflict and together seek a solution that is all acceptable.
Adult love does NOT keep uneg-uneg, although there are some sensitive things that should be disclosed such as Finance, Parents and Family issues ..
But whatever the problem should be discussed so that the aggravation is not protracted.
The conditions for successful conversation are us
Can rely on each other's feelings.
If husband and wife care about their own feelings, they will hurt each other.
If allowed to drag on, they can be hostile to each other and the household does not turn into heaven anymore except hell.
Is this condition can be fixed?
Of course it can be, when will each remember the initial commitment first whether to search for FRIENDS or LIFE ENEMIES?
If looking for a life partner why now even hostile?
Finding a life partner starts with Falling in Love.
But after that, the biggest portion is BUILD LOVE.
Meaning love matures so both parties can:
• Mutual Correcting and Bargaining,
• Respect and Respect,
• Mutual and Support with each other
• Listening and Understanding each other,
• Mutual and Responsible
Want to have a life partner? Fall in love.
But after that BUILD!