Liang Wendao said:
"When adults stir up their wings, heavy weights are still hanging on both wings."
The world of adults is a cycle of collapse and healing and rebirth of nirvana.
Can be disappointed, but never despair.
Under the beating of boulders again and again, it aroused one beautiful spray after another.
In the second half of life, be a transparent, free and easy, strong and never forget yourself.
Don't look back. Take full responsibility
Ming Lan said in "know it or not":
"How can everything in this world go well? There are so many things happening in the world, and we always have to look forward."
In life, everyone will experience all kinds of setbacks.
Or trapped in love, or confined to family affection, or suffering from success or failure, or difficult to choose.
But the road is always going forward.
Although in a relationship, the person who made a mistake may turn back and even sincerely repent.
But is it really worth taking the happiness of half your life and gambling on an illusory promise?
We often say that the three greatest blessings in the world are recovery, false alarm and reunion after a long separation.
But only, there is no reconciliation.
No one can take back the water poured out without dripping; The broken mirror, even if it is reunited, still has cracks.
You think you can start over as if nothing had happened.
But the crack is like a fishbone stuck in the throat, stabbing you from time to time. Neither swallow nor spit.
When you want to look back, you can't help thinking about the moments when the other Party allows you to digest your emotions and heal alone, and the desperate moments when you are torn to the heart and lungs.
Don't overestimate the importance of yourself in the other party's heart. Think your excellent kindness can save him.
If you make a decision, you will be disturbed by it.
You know, some people appear to see the beautiful mountains and rivers with you and laugh about the beauty of life.
Some people appear and look back just to tell you how many layers of hell there are.
People are nostalgic.
You can occasionally look back at those beautiful moments, or look at those miserable moments, and remind yourself not to repeat the mistakes.
But anyway, don't go back.
All the past is a preface. When you turn your head and move forward, a new chapter in life can be opened.
Don't force it, just make do with it
Why do many people feel tired in our interpersonal communication?
A high praise replied:
"Because everyone tries to show qualities they don't have."
Want to get the favor of a certain opposite sex, so try hard to dress up as the ideal type in the other party's heart;
If you want to maintain the sweetness and beauty on the surface of a relationship, let a grain of sand in your eyes gradually become a desert in front of you;
Want to integrate into a circle, force yourself to do things you don't like, but you can please others and get permission to enter
Many times, in order to achieve some purpose, we choose to make do with it.
I always think it's almost the same, so it won't be too bad.
But it turned out that it was a thousand miles away.
Pearls are made of sand in the clam shell and the clam runs in with its body.
But life, but not the sand squint, force yourself to adapt, you can see clearly, there is no pain.
Most marriages will go their separate ways; The work that will be dealt with will eventually be unhappy when they are unwilling and have to accept it.
Many things, the more you make do with them, the worse.
Such as love, such as children, such as days.
When I really start to love myself, there is a passage:
"When I really began to love myself, I realized that all the pain and emotional torture just reminded me to live and not go against my nature."
Life is limited.
Those who listen to their heart and never force themselves tend to go further and live more freely.
Don't hesitate, life has an end
As an old saying goes, you should think twice before you act.
To solve problems, we should think carefully, be considerate in dealing with people and things, and speak and work half a second slowly.
But in life, not everything can stand waiting.
Thinking that the children are still young, they are always busy with their work. They want to spend more time with them when they are older.
As a result, they become rebellious teenagers who dare not speak loudly.
I think the future is still long. I plan to take my parents to travel and see the outside world when the mortgage is paid off.
During the day and night transition, parents are old and have no physical strength and spirit to see the world. Sudden outbreaks and accidents have also blocked the beautiful expectation of going wherever you want.
Time is long, but everyone's life has an end and can't stand the long wait.
Wait and wait, the most important time has been missed.
Waiting has become an eternal regret in my heart.
Waiting, the opportunity slipped away in a moment.
The number of meetings between people is limited, and the opportunities in work and life are few.
Like a kite soaring with the wind, if you miss those few minutes, you often have to pay several times or dozens of times to soar in the sky.
There is no regret medicine in life.
Between wanting to do something and not doing it because of hesitation, and wanting to do it but not succeeding, the regret left by wanting to do it but not doing it is often deeper and more heart piercing.
Limited life, accompany worthy people; Proud talents are dedicated to short-lived opportunities.
When you face the wind and rain and give everything to the present, you will thank yourself one day in the future.
Don't look back in a soft heart, don't flatter the general, don't regret in hesitation.
Looking forward, the picture of life will be more colorful and wonderful.
Give it a compliment! I hope you and I can cross ourselves ashore in the tide of the times.