why i am single

I am 21 turning 22 one month from now,

I am single since I’m a modest individual and excessively terrified, making it impossible to converse with young ladies, I don’t converse with any young lady unless she converses with first. I can’t state a straightforward howdy to them first,because of this some of them think I am an impolite individual.

I just have some female companions since they are shared companions else I wouldn’t have a solitary female companion now. Another reason I don’t have any female companions is on account of I have no connection with young ladies and subsequently the dread of conversing with them proceeds.

My companions additionally ridicule me that I am the main individual in the gathering without a girlfriend.I can’t clarify them the reason and I stay silent at whatever point that subject is going on.Now they imagine that I don’t care for young ladies as it were. I simply give them a grin yet inside I’m crying.

The thing with me is I get appended to individuals effortlessly and when they abandon it’s exceptionally troublesome for me to get back. There used to be a young lady 5 years prior whom I used to visit and talk all day, every day and abruptly quit conversing with me giving the reason that “My family doesn’t care for me conversing with boy”,but she continued chatting with my companion and still does.After such huge numbers of years still her recollections flashes in by brain.She has even met me on street a went about as though everything was ok.That day I understand iam extremely feeble from inside and from that day I have never informed any young lady being in expect that imagine a scenario in which I get joined to her and she leaves,what’s the surety she will stay forever.Then I chose not to get appended to anybody.

I don’t wanna be in relationship simply every other individual is.When my companions battle with their lady friends and here and there say a final farewell to them I feel extremely upbeat that iam single,but on different days iam crying inside that I don’t have any sweetheart.

Another reason iam single since I like my ‘personal time’ which is essentially watching films and television arrangement throughout the day on my bed without any obligations.

I ‘ve not proposed to anybody since I fear hearing ‘NO’.Most of young ladies which merit proposing are out of my association or as of now committed.I don’t make due with anything whom I don’t care for regardless of whether the young lady likes me and that is one my greatest cons.I have one major dread that iam going to kick the bucket alone.

I think I gave considerably greater answer than needed,took over a hour to compose and still supposes I have miss something.

So essentially I am single in light of the fact that mostly by decision and halfway on account of my dread.