The Problem of Deceived Eve “Miss Independent” Black Mothers Who ‘Don’t Need a Man’, Raising Boys To Dysfunctional Men. 1/16

in singlemotherhood •  7 years ago 

Written in Jan 2016, shortly after 4 black grown up ''nigglets'' kidnapped, tortured and abused a mentally challenged 18 year old, but mind of a child, white young boy and live-streamed themselves doing it, for having the nerve not to support hillary clinton, and expressing that in a #MAGA hat. Then they wonder why people didn't want her?! LOL

In ''our community", there are 3 or 4 types of people, Just plain everyday black Americans who love the country, or at least are just satisfied with living life normal. aka ''African-American" in general, though most 'black Americans'' I know like myself, prefer just to be called ''AMERICAN" since that's what we are, where we are from, and the land that we love. Then there's the ''African-Americans'' who hate America and consider themselves part of the ''African diaspora, because as I'll get into later, black people imagine they are the new ''Jew'' God's chosen people. When did God covenant with our people? Just because you imagine our ''slavery'' journey is the same, that doesn't mean God is obligated to us! Then there are dumb negroes aka ''niggers'', that doesn't originate from the word black, but the root of the same word as ignore and nice. It means ''ignorant'' and was and still is applied to poor Irish slave and servants, Gypsies/Romas, and many other groups thought ''low class'' no matter their skin tone, This is your average street thug, gang banger, Johnny Appleseeds planting whole neighborhood with his seed, ghetto hanging out doing nothing but complaining the white "Man" is keeping them down, meanwhile, refused to crack a book in school, was defiant to authority, and never even tried to succeed cause that wouldn't be ''black''. They are too ''real'' authentic black to do that. This is much of the #blm movement, new black panthers, race baited useful idiots and such.

Btw, there is no such word spelled ''nigga''. and it's a myth that most of the time it's used by blacks to other blacks as a sign of endearment. "Nigga'' is just the southern pronunciation of ''nigger'' because it was racist white southern democrats that started using the term . Both black and white in the south, often drop the ''r'' sound, such as the word ''sister'' which sounds like ''sista'' and ''mister'' that sounds like ''mista". And as far as a term of endearment, yeah sometimes it's ''what up, my nigga?'' meaning my friend, but more often it's ''what up, MY NIGGA!" about to fight, shoot, rob, etc. One of the last things many black victims of black criminals hear before being robbed or murdered is ''NIGGA!"

The lowest of the low, there was no word for. But there was a movie in which a southern white racist politicians painting came alive with little tiny black slave dolls coming out to get him. We jokingly called them ''nigglets''. I don't remember if they actually called them that or not. However, sometimes there is no other word. There 4 are so small, petty, so much incredible willful ignorance and just plain stupid envious lazy covetous ones with violence and murders in their hearts, so 'nigglets'' seems apropos.


 Zo  Rachel, of the Zo Loft, 20LB Sledge, and formerly of PJ Media, touched  on this sort of, but it's been a topic of conversation for me lately.   Tommy Sotomayor talks of this often. If you are a young boy of a single  black mother who, for your whole life, no matter how she treats you, is  always saying ''Men ain't nothing.  I don't need a man, WE don't need a  man! I'm your mother AND father!" or worse, is she also takes it out on  her son, both scenarios happen often as upwards of 70% of black babies  are born to single mothers, are you surprised that:

There's is a rise in effeminate but supposedly straight black men (they call it ''metrosexual' at least they used to, it probably has been sliced into different genders by now.)Boys raised hearing they aren't needed, ain't nothing, are hated and often hear they are only good to use to get money and things from, grow up to be men who make babies and leave? Why wouldn't they if they aren't nothing, good for nothing but using, and ''women'', meaning his mother, told him his whole life, whether explicitly, or through her interactions with men, children don't need a father?

There are a LOT of gay black men, many on the down low. Atlanta is a hot bed of it. If a son believes his mother hates men, which he will become someday, and he wants his mother to love him, becoming more like a female in an attempt to gain his mother's love, acceptance and approval, in the mind of a child without any other role model, no father to model manhood, and the fact he's not there validating he's worthless in his eyes too, makes sense.

Another thing that happens sometimes, I don't know if it's because this is the kind of man he wishes loved him (but twists a father's love into same sex attraction) or, perhaps modelling after his mother in how he deals with male relationships, he develops a same sex attraction, to men who are supportive, cares about him in a way his parents don't, like a good teacher, coach or counselor, out of a twisted admiration, and need for his father's presence, attention and love.
And lastly in this particular type of observation some of them grow up and seem fine, until you pay attention to the way they interact with people, especially black men and women. They don't know how to work things out man to man, as they have mostly seen conflict from his mother's perspective with people, and so instead of being up front, they are sneaky, jealous to the point of going through phones, stalking, accusing their women of being nothing but hateful, lying, cheating gold diggers who will try to put a baby on him that isn't his (whether there's reason to doubt his woman or if it's cause his mother had a bunch of baby daddies and men coming in and out in front of him, or she doesn't even know who his daddy is), and they don't need men anyways.

I observed this often, and in fact, it's probably only like ET Williams, David Carroll and Tommy Sotomayor if you know who they are on youtube, that I've heard mention this, because they all three strong black men of some character and values, (i can only speak for what I've seen on the videos, except ET who I know on Fb) who tell it straight, have repeatedly had men on youtube declare ''war'' on him for telling the truth about they mamas, evidenced by the fact they they need attention, jump into fights that aren't their own (as they weren't personally addressed but are personally offended so as to make response videos filled with the same ranting ignorance they watched their mamas model as he grew up.

He fights just as emotionally as his mama. He doesn't know how to control his emotions, and deal with conflict as men. Heck, it would almost be better for them to come to blows, then for these men to be calling men 'b****s "and "h*s", make up vicious lies about them, accusing them of being all kinds of foul, like a woman scorned. They get it from they mama...

You've all seen some ignorant loud black woman out in public, (and I can't say I haven't been one in the sense of losing my temper in public, but you better believe even though I could have handled things better and not gotten loud, I have never regretted what was said, because my argument was sound, right, and based on truth.) going off when she is TOTALLY in the wrong, or her kids were totally in the wrong, in front of the kids, telling them by the actions that they don't have to live up to the same standards of common decency, morality, and responsibility that everyone else, has to, because he's a victim.

Have you seen the video a few months back of the mother going off in a target parking lot because her son opened the car door and hit the vehicle next to them? She refusing to shut up and just admit her son did ding the door. and after like 7 mins on film, who knows how long before he started filming, she drags her son, who's either 6, 7 or 8 because every time she said he was falsely accusing her son because RACIST, she lowered his age, she screams at him to show them where he could have hit the car, the boy honestly answered, and pointed to where he hit the door. She probably beat his behind for that when they got home.

When he grows up, and has conflict with males, especially black males, they fight and act the same way they saw their mothers act. They get loud, angry, and throw a tantrum until they get their way. Welcome to the genesis of #blm. That's why we have both black males and females having fits in the streets because things aren't going their way. And he chooses to only listen to and believe the voices that justify his sin, shirk responsibility of growing up to be a mature man capable of providing for a wife and kids, or just to be a man of integrity and good reputation, and puts all the blame on the ''white boogeyman'' cause SLAVERY!

BY the way, these type are some of the most Jew hating. people in the world. They are super racist against even blacks. (speaking for my own nearly half century of living in the East Bay near San Francisco. They hate me because I have always thought for myself.) But, they believe every conspiracy. the Jews run the world, the banking systems, the entertainment, AND (this is the important part, because we all are aware that God has gifted His people with intelligence, perseverance, etc, and also due to not being allowed in certain industries through the diaspora, they found themselves able to succeed in those areas) that the Jew is the arch nemesis of the black man, who they believe has replaced Israel as ''God's suffering people" or they believe that no ''white'' or what we currently know as a Jew are the ''real Jews'' but rather the black African, or they claim to be of Arab descent, a lost ''holy'' Muslim tribe taken to a far away land in bondage...) so that in truth, even though they hate ''white people'' it's because they believe that fair skinned Jews are just whites, so all whites, Jew or Gentile, are trying to wipe out the black man (because he's divine...) whether they have any power, authority, privilege or even Jewish heritage.

And they know gentile Europeans, pagans, heathens, Christians et al, are not Jewish, but they fear Jews, because they do believe they have the power, the money, and you don't bite the hand that feeds you, to their face. So in the same way these four nigglets didn't go up to a strong sound minded Trump supporting grown man, they found an defenseless young man, and was as evil to him as if he had been a little boy being tortured. And Trump is really a surrogate for the hidden ''evil'' Jews. I note they didn't take it out on a Jewish doctor, banker, or their Jewish boss (who they hate on at home, but kiss butt to at work). They are cowardly, phony, and lazy, so they picked the easiest target they could justify in their conscience seared minds. I hope they aren't already given over to reprobate minds by God, but I fear it may be too late. I never say never about that though, God only knows when they've crossed that line.
The synagogue of satan has Jews, but also all those who practice kabbalistic occultism (which in turn is an abomination of chimeric proportions, picking up from every place and peoples the ungodly practices of the land. The Mystery of Confusion, aka Babylon) of every tribe, tongue, nation and people, and even if Jews like the rothchilds, and soros, both secular leftist ethnic Jews (so they claim) who reject the God of Abraham, Issac and Jacob, and embrace luciferianism, have conspired with peoples who love money of whatever race, which is the root of all evil, those peoples conspired TOGETHER against God, and they are responsible for THEIR SIN just as all men, individually, to God. No Jewish person who isn't guilty of actually conspiring to take control of the world, is guilty, any more than I am because of barack, black like me, or I am because i'm a woman like hillary, or I am because I have Jewish blood as well... (Does that make me both responsible for all the world's ills and oppression, and the biggest victim of all the world's ills and oppression? Does my white part owe my black part? Am I antisemitic against myself? lol)

(Jeremiah 31:29-30) "In those days they shall say no more, The fathers have eaten a sour grape, and the children’s teeth are set on edge. {30} But every one shall die for his own iniquity: every man that eateth the sour grape, his teeth shall be set on edge."

Whites who participate in #blm are either doing it on purpose for their narrative or party agenda, they are being paid, they are virtue signalling how they admit their ''privilege" because of the ''white supremacist system" and are doing their part to be a voice for blacks to ignorant to even know, according to them, that America is evil and hates blacks." Most of it is white guilt because the left have been shaming them for things they didn't do. The problem is, they aren't females, they are males, and when they don't control their emotions, violence, destruction and death follow..

And even if they had, they don't now, and even if they did, still wouldn't make every white person a slave holding racist oppressor of the poor doe eyed helpless victim of a nigglet. think like Bambi, or Dumbo when you picture them, and not those two men and two women, and again they keep acting like all 4 were 18, when the older sister was a 24 year old mother of 2 with gang ties, who kidnapped and savagely beat, cut, and tortured a helpless 18 year old white man who had a less than 18 year olds, aka, a CHILD'S mental capacity, who didn't vote at all, whether he liked Trump or not, who knows if he even knows anything but his name really, and nothing of what the election means, while yelling hateful racists things and forcing him to as well. Remember they are ''just kids being kids'' and he's a ''young man with mental challenges''... you see what they did there?

Of course I am in no way saying that every black man raised by his mother fits one of these categories, nor that all single black mothers are like that, as I myself was a single black mother who co-parented with my son's dad without drama. We had 2 misunderstandings since my son was born, and they were just that. once it was cleared up, we were good. And some who are raised like this, even abused, learn early on that they do not want to be the type of person society, even their own mother, says men, especially black men, are and grow up to be awesome fathers, husbands, citizens, responsible men. I thank the Lord for getting us through. Many of my friends weren't as lucky with their 'baby daddies'.

I have seen some pretty interesting anecdotal evidence that also in white homes where the father is aloof if present, like a workaholic, or doesn't show much interest in their son, or absent deadbeat nigglet daddies too (nigglets, immature ignorant ones, come in all tribes, tongues, nations and peoples, more and more today, but it's still about 1/3 the single mother births for whites around 24% to 70 or so in black homes), there is a tendency toward sodomy, effeminate, and/or beta male natures. But it's less often in these homes that the boy hears every day in home, school, community and TV he has no purpose, shouldn't even try to rise above circumstance, and are in fact ''just sperm donors'' for the next generation of women who will hate them like their mother hates their father. They are more likely to be doting on by the single white mother, but results in the same kind of dynamic, with less overt anger. Anderson Cooper comes to mind...

Boys raised hearing they aren't needed, ain't nothing, are hated and often hear they are only good to use to get money and things from, grow up to be men who make babies and leave? Why wouldn't they if they aren't anything, good for nothing but using, and ''women'' meaning his mother, told him his whole life, whether explicitly, or through her interactions with men, children don't need a father?

They see that their mothers have a new step-father figure for them, the government, who doesn't like exes and baby daddies around his harem of dependent women, except to demand child support from, even if he's not allowed to see the child and has far less say how his child is raised, even if he wanted to, than the state if she's on welfare, but they'll put him in jail for not paying for the responsibility they took over from him, while telling the women (until obama expanded things so that middle class people qualified for welfare in many cases so some fathers are on welfare living in the home with their wives/or not and kids, even though may or may bot work part time, because hey don't want to mess up the money...) that if not only the father, but if they had any man in the home who helped support her children, sharing rent and bills, it will effect the money she gets from welfare.

If you don't know, they used to, even into the 80s, pop up at your house to try to catch you with any evidence a man was living with you. But I digress. I will end it here. Thanks for reading this long

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