My problem solving method.

in solution •  7 years ago 

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Now remarried
It is my only way to recommend it to a colleague who lives happily and well.

Due to a failed marriage
About living with a man
She was very pessimistic ...

She met her beloved man again.
Can not make a decision on a marriage request.
Asked me to advise.

so..
It's really hard to decide when to use
I told she how to solve my problem.

Here's my Method

1. Draw a vertical line at the center of the A4 paper.

2. Create a positive element in the action to decide on one side.

3. Write negative elements on the other side.
(However, you have to set the time for 10 minutes, 30 minutes ..)
(If you do not set the time, it will be an obstacle to making a conclusion)

4. Each element weighs its own weight.
(I have 0-10 levels)

5. Add the values ​​given to the left and right elements.

6. Naturally, a higher figure is the direction you should take.

However, if you use this method
What you initially set is the answer you gave yourself
Never make a decision overturned.

Think about it ...
This method, which may be too simple,
I have my own philosophy of decision.

The decision about each element and the weight is that you fall yourself.
The person who has to come to the conclusion is himself
This is because you are ultimately responsible for the consequences of the conclusion.

As we live, we are faced with numerous choices.
And I regret the decision I made.

But..
Because I live my life once
Even today
I have to find my own way to make the best choice.

'Choice and concentration'
To make my life the best choice today ...
I am posting it on Steemit


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No matter what happens, your way of choosing to deal with it will at the end of the day determine how happy you are.
7 years ago I had a big accident and became paraplegic, but I decided to do anything I could possibly do that I did before my accident, sometimes I need help, sometimes it is very hard, but I feel more proud of what I achieve now than before I got hurt and I think I am happier now than ever before.

Useful post, very help me solve the problem. Thanks you..
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