At least this trial can show you who's really in your corner and who cares. (Just remember that sometimes when we're down, others are going through trials of their own and honestly can't do anything else other than listen.) As for being in a tough situation, usually the consequences of a crime aren't worth it in the long run. I can't say I haven't been tempted (I COULD but then I'd be a liar). Remember, do what you won't regret. If it all turns sour, at least you'll have that going for you. And, you'll be able to proudly look your son in the eye. Good luck @althea!