A rant about the behaviour of men in relationships within the Church

I find it interesting that the children of the world start a demonic trend and Christians play catch up by trying to put a Christian spin on demonic stupidity to justify it. It clearly indicates many Christians love the world more than God.

We are now breeding spiritually spineless men in church when we spend our time debating whether we should endorse carnality or not. No prayer. No fasting. Prayer-less men without the Word of the Lord roaming the aisles in carnality and spiritual blindness.

The line between the church and the streets is now blurred and almost non existing. Menaskom on the streets, Menaskom in Church. Men in the Kingdom should be pursuing the things of God in fear and reverence but are trying to keep up with the trend and passion of the carnal crew.

Integrity amongst Christian men in Church is now at an all time low. Accountability is zero because they want to hide under darkness to perpetuate crookedness. You say a sister in a So-called Godly relationship should fornicate with you but keep it low-key. Shame.

Even the so-called sisters in church are not helping their futures. They really don’t want Godly men. They only want a clone of their carnal boyfriends in the world who attend church and won’t cheat on them. They really don’t want men with spiritual backbone or substance

Your boyfriends in the world were scum. Their clones in Church that you run after who refuse to submit their sexuality to God will also be scum. Then you start sewing Menaskom threads.

One common feature I saw across those who did great things with God was that they were not out to impress the carnal crew. They sought God and did not make themselves into clones of people in the world with a Christian label.

There are loads of men with erection walking up and down Church aisles but we need more men with spiritual and financial direction and leadership. So Few men in church that a woman will look up to spiritually. They are just managing them out of desperation to marry.

We have set the bar so low in Church today. All you need to be deemed marriage worthy in some churches is to wave some yahoo money. No integrity or character required. The sisters fill the all night prayer meetings while the ‘brothers’ are screwing away on Allen.

The way you know that majority have lost the plot here in the kingdom is that we are not asking if what we are about to do will bring glory to Christ. We are only looking for convenient bible verses to validate the stupidity we want to copy from the secular world.

You are a married Christian brother in a well known mainstream Pentecostal Church but you cannot share the gospel of Christ with any of your colleagues in the office because you have tried to sidechick 4 girls in that same office when your wife was pregnant. We need to do better

If you call yourself a brother in church and you say that you will cheat because your wife didn’t lose her baby fat, you simply don’t have the Spirit of God. You are carnal. Period. We should stop hosting such silly debates in Church and leave that to the sinners.

Most of this fleshly junk on the streets that believers are trying to look for scriptures to endorse, you won’t have any taste for them if you are regularly committed to prayer, fasting and studying the Word. Many so called men in church have never fasted for 7 days.

We have too many men in church walking around with erection but without direction. We need to raise a church filled with men who fear God and are fully committed to following God’s Word and direction. Only such men can provide authentic leadership to wives and families.

The lines are so blurred now. Unsaved men have a huge stash of porn on their phones and laptops. Brothers and choir leaders in church have the same stash on their phones and laptops. Explains why nude images accidentally show up on overhead projectors during praise & worship.

The choir group has the largest stash of unruly men in most churches followed by the protocol group. Naa! Let’s deal with the choir another day.

On a lighter mood, a pastor in Nigeria had to send his assistant to a brother who kept beating his wife. Assistant Pastor got there and told the brother “I used to be in the university cult before I got saved. If I hear that you beat her again, I will break your legs” 😅😅

Some cry babies came into my mentions to say I am judging with this thread. Describing what is wrong so we can rectify it is judging? Lol! Did Jesus use forehead kisses to address his audience over issues that need drastic change? Pull your thumbs out of your mouths and grow up.

It’s like several born again Christian men are carrying out their earthly activities without any consciousness of heaven or judgement day. You con a sister into a fornication relationship using marriage as a bait. Smash, Dump, Rinse, get a new Sister, repeat 😢

Let also spare a thought for the common pentecostal church scam where the ‘Lord’ tells a brother to date a sister, he smashes and then the ‘Lord’ tells him to breakup and move to another sister who is laiskeen and obviously has a bigger Manchester United. 😩

The grace of God is now here. The grace of God that brings salvation is here to TEACH US to deny ungodliness and worldly lusts so we can live soberly and righteously. The grace of God has not come to teach us to imitate the world inside the church.

The grace of God has also come to teach us to live our lives expecting that Jesus can come back for us anytime. It is time for us to start putting off the old man and putting on the new man in Christ Jesus.

It is time for us to work out our salvation with fear and trembling. Phil 2:12 is in the New Testament so don’t faith me away

It’s almost like many brothers in church have lost their humanity. You approach a sister for a relationship, string her along for 2 years and then ghost like Ozil without any explanation. We should ask ourselves “is this how we want our daughters treated by men in 25 years time?”

I have seen or had reported several practices in churches that almost make you think the church and the streets hold the same view on such subjects. We cannot just keep quiet simply because we are scared of people who will raise the “you are judging me” card.

I am a man and I have spent at least a quarter of a century in Pentecostal circles. I must admit that more messages were preached to women about submission than to men about spiritual and moral excellence. Men then get let off more frequently than women during conflicts.

You are a brother in a tongue talking church in a serious relationship with a sister that started as Godly. You get midway and threaten the sister that you won’t marry her if she doesn’t agree to fornication. We cannot call this weakness or temptation, it’s called wickedness.

You are a brother in church in activity group and younger people look up to you. Then you start a relationship with a sister tagged as Godly. Next thing, you say because she’s not a virgin, she must give you a free pass to her body. This doesn’t sound Christian to me at all.

A word for sisters here:

Don’t concede to any brother who says you must give him a pass to your body because you are no longer a virgin. He is operating under a demonic influence. Just show him this scripture. If this scripture means nothing to him, he is free to leave.

A word for sisters:

Don’t concede to a brother who says to you that going in through your rear door does not also count as fornication. He is wrong. Show him this scripture. If this scripture means nothing to him, he is free to leave.

Menaskom stories & threads are here to stay till Jesus comes back. However, as the Church of Jesus Christ, what are we doing to ensure the behaviour of men in the sheepfold does not validate Menaskom narratives? Are we happy to see them being Menaskom like folks on the streets?

Menaskom stories & threads are here to stay till Jesus comes back. However, as the Church of Jesus Christ, what are we doing to ensure the behaviour of men in the sheepfold does not validate Menaskom narratives? Are we happy to see them being Menaskom like folks on the streets?

A brother in your church is still dating a girl for 4 years and is marrying someone else next month. You say I am judging because I am throwing up issues like this. Maybe we should wait for Miss Ikeji to drag your Pastor before we agree this is an issue worth discussing?