The human voice is the instrument you play is the most powerful sound in the world with which anyone can start a war or say i love you and yet many people have experience tha when they speak people cant listen to them .
why is that how can we speak powerfully to make change in the world .well there are no. of habbits we needs to mave away from them i assemble some of them for you
- gossip :- talking about someone which is not there( we know that people gossiping will gossip about us 5 min later)
- judging :- we know people who like this in conversation and it's very hard to listen anybody if you know that you would be judge and found wanting at the same time)
- negativity :- you can fall in it ( you can talk a person who is in his last years of his life he/she will be very very negative and it's hard to listen them)
- complaining :- well this is the national art of india (it's our national sport we can complain about sport,weather,abput politics,about actually but complaining is viral misiry it's not spreading sunshine and lightness in the world)
- excuses :- ome people are blame thrower they just pass it on everybody else and don't take responsibility of their action so it's again hard to listen which is like that)
- lying :- and the altimate of the 7 (it means a language actually sometimes for example if i see somthing very owesome what i have to call it ) so we don't listen to people who are lying to us
- dogmatism :- the confusion of facts with oppinions when those two things get conflited you are listing to a winj (like someone is bombarding you with their oppinion and say its true it is difficult to listen them)
so heres the 7 deadly sence of speaking that i think we have to avoid but is there is any possitive way to think about it ? yes there it is i like to suggest 4 powerfull kota stones ,foundations on that we stands on if we want our speech
be powerfull.
fortunately the word is HAIL and it has a great defination i am not talking about the stuff hit on your head i am talking about this defination TO GREET OR ACCLAIM ENTHUSIASTICALLY which is a thing how our words will be recived
and these four letter stands for
Honesty (be clear and straight)being true on what you said
the A is Authenticity (just being yourself) standing on your own truth which i mean a lovely way to put it
the I is Integrity(be on your word)
and L is Love i don't mean romantic love but i do mean wishing people well
you have an amazing toolbox this instrument is incredable and yet it is a toolbox so very few people can open it . It has very intreasting tools in it like
register,timbre( a research shows that we can easily trust rich voice warm like hot chocolate, then third is prosody(the meta language that we use in order to meaning in an conversation)
pace (saying slowly) and in last is silence its nothing wrong with scilence in a talk
and finnaly volume
this is a toolbox use to improve your speaking skill
now let me just put in the contest to close this is a serious point here what would be world like if we speek powerfully ,listen consciously in a favourable condition
or to make a bit larger what would be world be like if creating sound consciously and consuming the sound consciously and designing our environment consciously for sound
that would be world does sound beautiful and one way understanding would be the norm and that is the idea of
spreading