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@beanz Wow, you've made great progress! I'm proud of you. I give it one or two weeks max before you're there.

I have no idea what's going on between you and @earnest but you hopped in my thread asking for help. So this is the best I can offer you.

Open a dialog with him and ask him why he is being this way with you.
Let him know that it's not making you angry, but that it's hurting your feelings and you want to know what you did to make him think that hurting you was a good idea.

I never said that him or anyone else was reformed. I said there are those of us who see that him and others that are acting this way may reform if we just hear them out.

If they really didn't want to be part of our social order, they would find somewhere else to put their attention.

Nevertheless, all human interactions both online and off are complex by nature. Anyone who tells you there is a simple solution to a complex problem is either lying or ignorant.

Sometimes though, the problem just isn't as complex as it looks at first.

@earnest Upvote this if you agree that engaging in a civilized dialog could cause you to afford others the same level of respect you afford me. Then let @beanz open a dialog when she's had a chance to breathe, because you were being pretty severe.

To really be my friend, you need to try and be friends with my friends and I have no enemies, just people I don't yet understand.

Thanks @williambanks you have a good heart but perhaps too much faith in the goodness that just doesn't exist in everyone. I already know why he wants to hurt me. And to be clear, I am not hurt or afraid of him. I know you're intentions are good, but I would ask you to consider waiting for the reformation rather than rewarding it before it's happened. He's going to comment nice things some places just so he can build his reputation and have an impact. He gives you that respect to get the upvote.

I have been friendly with earnest on steemit chat before he got blocked so it's not as though he doesn't know I'm a person.

Thank you for taking the time to see this. The beauty is the transparency. Be careful with him.

While I can respect that.
I have no faith that goodness resides within a person, nor does evil.

Good and Evil are choices made in a moment of time. That moment has passed, but it's effects persist for a long time.

I do know that a single act of bad in the present can counter a lot of good from the past. But a simple act of kindness can also topple a lifetime of bad acts.

Dr Seuss taught me that, in a book called "How the Grinch Stole Christmas".

The fact that someone deigns to think of us as in their society is always a gift, for good or for evil it is still a gift. It's always our own decision whether or not to accept any gift.

It's also a choice whether or not to return any gift.
I choose to reward good behavior, and nothing makes me happier than to see my friends, become friends. You already know what I believe about enemies.

Well that went well wouldn't you say. We're just playing pass the troll and you're helping him build his reputation.

^The final comment of our civilised dialogue.^

I'm not looking for help @williambanks, I'm asking you not to support him.

@beanz I'm going to stop commenting on trolling and censorship. Just know I'm your friend and I care. But a flagging war helps no one. Please don't flag anything in my blogs though, ok? @earnest please leave @beanz alone even if she doesn't stop first. It's turning into a mexican standoff and honestly I think we all have better things to do.

@beanz I meant every word I said about you in my #nameinlights post. Please go back to being an awesome positive person. I miss my friend.

Thank you. I'll agree not to engage with them again.

You should be my steemit splits buddy! i have been working on my splits for what seems like forever, a recent injury set my progress way back, and it is so hard for me to keep motivation!

I would love to be your steemit splits buddy!!

So how would we do that?? We should meet in steemit.chat at some stage to exchange ideas 😉

That would be cool ! i just set up steemit.chat. Do you know about the facebook worldwide splits contests? Maybe we could start something similar on here ! My steemit.chat name is the same as my username :)

Following your progress week by week. Congrats !
Keep the hard work !

Thank you, I will :)

@beanz can you please stop flagging @dickbutt? The rep is already at zero. You've already censored it. There is no need to continue flagging that account it is a bot. Just flag the person calling it.

I will be editing the code very soon so that it won't even be able to appear on posts like this. It will be limited to joke and nsfw content. In the meantime flagging it further doesn't make sense since it's already censored.

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I don't have the steem power to censor your bot. He was already censored before i started flagging it. I'm sorry it got abused by spammers but you'll have to reprogram it if you don't want it flagged. It's too easy to abuse.

If it does get some reputation and I hope you can, I still don't want those gifs to reappear on my post. So I'm sorry, I have to keep them flagged for when that happens.

I get your point. But the censorship has been done and I see that you've still been flagging it even though it's already censored. Why flag it more? What purpose will that accomplish? It can't be more censored.

I'm not asking you to remove flags but to just stop further flagging. There is no need to continue flagging as you are doing. Thank you.

I do not wish to flag you anymore. If you don't want to be flagged it is your choice. As long as you are responding to my posts and comments, I will flag you. Be the bigger person if you really think I'm the one playing the victim. Stop walking into my flags and I will ignore you.

Thank you. I'm sorry for causing you any stress in all this. It's a clever and funny bot, just a shame there are kids who abuse it.

As for skeptic, she has been harassing me here for weeks now ever since I told her to stop harassing somebody else. I took the bullet to get her away from somebody who was clearly stressed out from her bullying. I have muted her but she continues to appear in my replies, so I've told her I will flag anything she puts in my reply feed. She keeps commenting because she knows she'll get attention from it after I flag her. Same goes for earnest/feminism. I am not their friends. If they don't want to be flagged they only have to stay away from me. There's a great big steem world out there of other people to engage with. But they choose to come here and get flagged.

The gifs are on my post. Do you realise that if your bot gets its reputation back, and there are no flags after the payout I won't be able to flag or hide it. I don't want new readers of mine who come to my posts in 4 weeks time to see the dickbutt gif all over my post.

Also, as earnest is an easily predictable troll, after reading this he is going to spam your bot all over my posts so you would be better to just disable it or I will have to flag it again.

Also to be honest, I don't like any bot that responds to posts automatically because it means people with minus reputation like earnest can use it (if it has reputation) to make their comments visible, and you don't want to see his comments trust me.

The bot is fixed and shouldn't be able to appear on any of your posts unless they are tagged as a joke, funny, adult, nsfw post. Your feverish hunting down of @dickbutt across other people's posts is still kind of off-putting but I'm not going to fight in a flagging crusade for @dickbutt cartoons.

On that note though I do see you are censoring other types of comments on your thread too and are flagging @skeptic for making some apparently valid points.

Please stop being so liberal with your flags you have a mute option too. You may not be a Dolphin yet but the SP you do have is enough to hurt some of the minnows.

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

just ignore me then, flagging people more like you are doing then playing the victim to justifiy your actions is not working. so if you choose to keep flagging people and pretending like you don't know why people are talking about it it is not going to fix anything. we all know hes flagging you and doxxing you because you are flagging everyone. this will be my last response to you. you can not stop me from talking to others. so why not take your own advice and stop with the flagging and be the bigger person. if you stopped flagging people this would be over. you couldn't even go 24hrs without flagging someone after doxed. can you not see both you and him are in the wrong? fucking stop with the flagging and both sides of this could stop. god damn its like you want him to fuck with you so you can play victim. I know you think im trolling but im just trying to get you to stop this endless cycle. you even say d I c k b u t t in your comment then flagg it when it pops up when you know you called it.
please just stop with the flagging and the victim shit, take responcibility and move on.
this will be my last attempt to try to talk to you.
:/

Edit:
ok maby not. you want to flagg me more right after I said I would stop talking to yu when you say you wanted to stop flagging me? fuck you I have no cares now. have fun getting doxed. your a waste of my time. have a great life playing the victim when your causing this shit. so thank you for another flag you piece of shit

@beanz
Please do not comes in my post or any of my posts doing down flagging
I don't like it.

Pfff. Earnest was in the process of doxxing me. I will flag comments he makes that promote his doxxing wherever they are. It's illegal for Christ sake.

he is doxing you because you're flagging people, stop trying to turn it around to make it out like your the victim, your doing this to your self. -smh-

That's amazing! Way to go! I've always felt the need to do more stretching at the gym! Will do it a regular basis when I get back to it and check my progress a month later. :)

Hey when do we get part 3 of 3 on your poetry?

😊 It's coming 😊

Messed up you're saying skeptic was making sexual references about little kids. I looked at his posts. He never has. You're a sick lady.

This is the link where the sexual reference is made.

That's not making a sexual reference.