Hi Steemian, Adil here :)
Are you a Giver or a Taker?
Who is A Giver?
- The person who puts his interests aside while Talking to you and Focuses on You, and how she/he can Bring value to Your Life.
- The real giver is a Person who never asks nor Expects anything back for his work, time, energy!
- Giver is a person that Will always be there to encourage you to do Better in life for Yourself!
- Giver is a person who will miss out on his/her own Success just to Help you succeed
Benefits of Being a Giver:
- Human-Beings are Hardwired to give back to people who Gave them something first!
- So all givers are in a Way Receivers, as long as they are not Being Used.
- When You do Something for a person and Don't ask anything back Life Rewards you.
- The reward might not come right away, or it may come in form of a Problem at first, but in future, when you look back at the moment you will understand that you have learnt a lesson, and that in itself was the biggest Reward for You!
Dangers of Being a Giver
- Most Takers will try to use, even Abuse you sometimes.
- You have to Maintain the Balance, if you are always giving to Takers, they will Expect that in future from you. They will not appreciate your time and energy, and they won't understand that You don't Owe them anything!
- Kindly remind them that You are doing this, for them and You don't expect anything back and they Better Appreciate and Value You, or You will stop assisting them!
Being a Giver in this World is the Only Way to Success!
- Look at the Top Richest People on the Planet and what are they Doing...
- They are almost All Givers! Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Jeff Bezos, Warren Buffet, Richard Branson - These People are EXTREME Givers!
- They are Eradicating Malaria, they are Bringing energy and Water to Poorest Parts of the planet, they run Charities and Donate Billions of Dollars to Keep our planet's Environment as Healthy as possible!
- When You Give, You get Rewards from places where You don't ever expect a reward!
- Yesterday I had a Moving Truck and I was Moving Some of my furniture to a New apartment
- I was asked by a random person that I have known for 1 Day to Grab a couch, a table and a few more things for him...
- He told me he will pay for Gas, which I could have done myself easily and saved some Time on Not Making 2 Extra Stops and Loading extra furniture...
- When I was Done I got a very warm thank you, a Good Relationship, and he gave me $200 which I din't want to take but He slipped them in my pocket!
- That's just a little story of How Givers Win in Today's World...
How Takers Ruin lifes...
- Take a place where Givers Thrive and slip a Few Takers in there.
- Watch how fast Givers will recognize takers, and their Unappreciation.
- They will stop Giving as soon as they see this injustice...
- That's one way that Takers might Turn Givers into Takers!
P.s. Sorry for Repetitiveness of the words "Giver" and "Taker" this article requires me to Repeat the Terms many times so that I can Clearly draw a line of Difference between the two!
Steem Is No Place for Takers
- Steem Rewards Givers, People who Give Value To others, without Expecting much.
- People Who Focus Solely on Giving Succeed here Massively!
- So If you have been Hiding your Inner Giver, because you did not have people Who appreciate you, It's time to set The giver Free, here On Steem and Give, Give, Give!
If you are a giver:
- I want to Acknowledge You, for Being amazing
- For Making this planet a Better place to Live for Other people
- I love you for putting other people's interests before your own! It takes Courage, and discipline to be a Real giver!
- and It certainly makes the difference.
- Every action, every smallest Gesture, every smile might Brighten someone's day!
- Do not Underestimate the consequences of Your Actions!
The more you give the more you get (at least on steemit it is :-) )
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Very True, can't ever expect to receive something though :) Just Blindly give, give,give.
It might sound Counter-intuitive, but it's true
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Great post!
You brought up a bunch of insightful points while including a refreshing personal aspect to it. Up-Voted!
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This post received a 2.4% upvote from @randowhale thanks to @mirage! For more information, click here!
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im def a giver!
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@jaimeguti You are Awesome!
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i believe i am a giver , if i am not i 'm trying to be one.....
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The fact that you can say you are means that You in fact are a giver :)
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That's why I not a "please upvote" or "please follow me" person. 😝. Here on steemit and even more in real live I believe it' s coming back to you somehow sometimes someway. And giving is fun and good for ones heart.
Great post, @adil!
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I love it. This community is so awesome and I love how many "givers" there are. It restores some faith in humanity :)
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The magic of the butterfly effect. You never know whose life you touch...or may even save.
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