Am about to tell you the strangest secret in the world (at least that's what I call it). Some years ago a late Nobel Prize winning doctor was been interviewed in London and a reporter asked him Doctor what's wrong with men today? ,the late doctor was silent for a moment and then he said men simply don't think, it's about this that I want to talk with you, we leave today in a golden age this is an era that man have looked forward to, dreamed of, worked towards for thousands of years ,IMG_20180206_024436.jpg
But since it is here we pretty much take it for granted, but do you know what happens? . Let's take a hundred men who starts even at the age of 25, do you have any idea what will happen to does men by the time their sixty.this one hundred men who all starts even at the age of twenty five believe that their going to be successful, if you asked them if they wanted to be a success, they will tell you that they did and life seemed like a pretty adventure to them but by the time they are sixty five, one will be rich, four will be financially independent, five will still be working, fifty four will be broke, let's think a moment out of one hundred only five will be rich 
Now why does so many fail?,what happens to the sparkle that was there when they were twenty five, what's become of their dreams, their hopes, their plans and why is there a large disparity between what this men intended to do and what they actually accomplished, when we say about five percent achieved success we have to define success and here is the definition "success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal" if a man is working towards a predetermined goal and knows where his going that man is a success, if his not doing that his a failure, the opposite of courage in our society is not carwordise it is infirmity and there you have the trouble today's informity people acting like everyone else without knowing where there going, we comform and the trouble is that we are acting like, the wrong percentage group ,the ninety five who don't succeed and why do this people conform, well there we really don't know. This people believe that their lives are shaped by circumstances by things that happened to them, by exterior forces. There are out of directive people.
The certain men working were asked why do you work?,why do you get up in the morning?, Ninteen out of twenty had no idea, if you asked them they will say "well everyone goes to work in the morning " and that's the reason they do it because everyone else is doing it. Let's get back to our definition of success who success?? . The only person who succeeds is the person who is progressively realising a worthy ideal, is a person who says I am going to become something and begins to work towards that goal. I will you who successful people are, success is a school teacher because that's what he or she wants to do, success is a woman who is a wife and a mother because she wants to become a wife and a mother, also doing a good job at it, success is a man who runs a corner gas station because that's what he wants to do, a success is a successful sales man who wants to become a top notch sales man and grow and build up his organization, a success is any one who is doing deliberately a predetermined job, because that's what he decided to do deliberately, but only one out of twenty does that why today there isn't really any competition unless we make it for ourselves instead of competing, all we have to do is to create. Even when your going through all kinds of hell just keep going, I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within, it is there in you all the time, it has always been in you ,all you have to do is to believe in yourself and take one step at a time.