- Because we should love the neighbor if I do not even know him.
- If he has not done anything for me, when I was having a difficult time.
- I'm going to help you see if I get some benefit with it.
People who desperately need someone to love them, feel lonely because they have not learned to love themselves. The whole world could hate you, but if you love yourself, you have enough love to give to others. If you really love yourself, you do not hurt yourself, you get away from the pain and frustration that anger and resentment cause.
Those who love themselves forgive those who offend them, because lack of forgiveness hurts, on the contrary, forgiveness edifies and comforts the heart of those who grant it. Jesus said: "For my sake, I forgive you," because he could not say that he loves us if he does not love himself. This is not a selfish affirmation, on the contrary, it is a way of confirming that love is a mandate and that it starts with the love that we must express as children of God.
The love you feel for you is evident. When you love yourself, you look to see yourself and behave well, you care about your presentation and to make a good impression with your attitudes. When you appreciate and recognize your value, do not give yourself to anyone who tells you nice words, do not allow them to humiliate you, dishonor you or manipulate you, because you know you are worthy of the best. And with that attitude it is easy to share the same love and respect for others, because you will seek to give others what you want to receive.
God told us to do to others what we would like them to do to us. Others say it backwards, in negative: "Do not do what you do not want to be done", but it is better to put it in a positive way, as the Lord says, because we seek to see and do good, instead of paying attention to what bad. In your marriage, assume the attitudes you would like to see in your partner.
If you want to be more loving and thoughtful, if you want to be less angry and trust more, you start to live those qualities. Do what you want them to do to you. If you want me to enter the house saying: "Hello my love! Where is my princess? "Recite it with those compliments:" Hello my love, welcome, my champion, the prince of this home! "If you want to be spoken with sweetness, do it first. Mold what you want to receive because with that measure you will be measured.