Will You Choose Your Partner Again and Again?

Hey guys, I trust your week is going on well, so far, mine is running smoothly. Today I want to share with you what I've observed from a social media group of women I associated with.

It happens that one of the women was asking women if they will choose their partner in their next life again. Men! See different responses from Women; some affirmatively said yes and then praised their partners in those areas they are very good at, they also pray for their husbands to progress in some certain aspect.

Others said no, that they Prefer being a man to their hubby so that they will treat them the way they are treated.

From people's contributions, I deduced that some women forbid having their husbands as their future husbands while some women pretend, lie and twist their relationship to suit them on social media networks. Though, there are genuine, sincere, and honest women who enjoy every moment of their relationship with their husbands, and who wish to have their husbands, over and over again

Most marriages have suffered, abused, tormented, separated, or divorced because of too many expectations while few women marry beasts in human form. Negative exposure, innovation, lifestyle and mimicking, unfriendly friends, negative environmental impact, societal influence, peer groups, and social media networks have inculcated and instilled negativities in us which we live with.

Dating right exposes one's character to some extent but most women are carried away by the word "love" and suffer while in marriage. "Dating is the process of verifying, studying, learning, investigating, correcting and possibly rendering solutions". Most marriages don't last because of bossy character, irritating behavior, smelling attitude, unforgiving spirit, nagging aspect, stupid ideas, dragging of equal rights, etc, either from the man, woman, or both. Too many expectations contribute to hatred, separation, anxiety, unnecessary arguments, physical challenge, beatings, humiliation, disgrace, confrontation, stubbornness, divorce, and eventual death.

"Marriage is designed for two matured people who should share the same views, ideas, goals, aspirations, dreams, aims, objectives, reasons, etc". It's designed for procreation and companionship. It's sweet and soars, so be careful of who, what and how you behave in it. "Never say you are lucky until you get married". Some women are architects of their problems while few women are victims of circumstances

Women who have made mistakes when dating, have to endure, tolerate and accommodate wrong dates in their marriages, suffer and smile at them. They only had in mind of marrying a man with riches, wealth, power, and fame without knowing his real behavior. God answered their prayers but they never knew that there is more to marriage than these things. Complaints, comparisons, and competition have set in.

Another category is women who dated right, loved, and are still loving but were unlucky to settle down with beasts, cheats, destroyers, distractionist, deceivers, betrayers, and pretenders, immediately after God's blessings upon the marriage.

In other words, while dating right, still seek God's grace in your marriage, commit all your paths and ways for God to direct them, respect, value, love, and appreciate yourself because "he who goes to equity, must go with clean hands", worry fewer because "worry is a dark room where negatives are developed", allow God to perfect His plans in your life. If you are already struggling or suffering in your relationship, the only way out is to seek God's intervention, surely, you will smile again!!!

Hello my friends will you choose or change your marriage partner if opportunity is given to you? Let's discuss this on the comment section.