Gotcha. I wish a group of whales and dolphins could come together on at least this one thing and establish a policy. People are being ruined and driven off the site. The long-term reputation of the entire community is somewhat at stake.

I hear ya about the "self policing" thing, and I agree, but then I am a Constitutional republican, not an anarchist...though that's a heckuva a lot better than the other end of the spectrum, for sure.

Listen, I really appreciate your time and comments. You didn't have to do all this for a newb, and I am truly grateful.