What is good in being Single? Was bringt das Single Leben für Vorteile?

in steemit •  7 years ago 

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Hello everybody,

I have reported that I have been single for a long time. Many people are afraid to be alone. These fears have plagued and burdened me. Meanwhile, a lot of time has passed since the last partnership and I have often wondered what I can draw positive from my current situation.

Generally, I am a relationship person. In the time alone, I found a few points, which is not so bad on its own.

More motivation!
Relationships are cozy. And you often see this coziness as well. The sport is neglected, the chips are very popular. And with your outfits, you have to be honest, in the beginning also more effort. Singles, on the other hand, take a walk around the world and look fabulous, after all, one could meet her or him at any moment.

Exciting stories !
What sounds more exciting: "I was with my girlfriend at the dance class" or "I met in the dark Salsaclub a Brazilian, with whom I spent the whole night. I do not know her name, but it was hot and wild "? Just.

Do not play any interest!
For the love of the parent you are also interested in the biggest garbage. But if you're single, you'll never have to say, "Oh, interesting." But you can just say at the date, "Nope, I'm not a bit interested. Bye!"

The most beautiful it is still a couple :)

How do you spend your single time?

Big kisses,
xoxo Anni

Deutsch / The same in German

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Hallo zusammen ,

Ich habe ja berichtet , dass ich schon länger Single bin. Viele Menschen haben Angst alleine zu sein . Auch diese Ängste haben mich geplagt und belastet. Mittlerweile ist viel Zeit nach der letzten Partnerschaft verstrichen und ich habe mich oft gefragt , was ich aus meiner aktuellen Situation positiv rausziehen kann.

Generell bin ich ein Beziehungsmensch. In der Zeit alleine habe ich paar Punkte gefunden, was im alleine sein gar nicht so schlecht ist .

Mehr Ansporn!

Beziehungen sind gemütlich. Und diese Gemütlichkeit sieht man häufig auch. Der Sport wird vernachlässigt, die Chips stehen hoch im Kurs. Und bei deinen Outfits hast du dir, sei ehrlich, am Anfang auch mehr Mühe gegeben. Singles hingegen spazieren durch diese Welt und sehen fabelhaft aus, schließlich könnte man jeden Moment auf sie oder ihn treffen.

Spannende Geschichten !

Was klingt spannender: „Ich war mit meiner Freundin beim Tanzkurs“ oder „Ich habe im dunklen Salsaclub eine Brasilianerin kennengelernt, mit der ich die ganze Nacht verbracht habe. Ich weiß nicht wie sie heißt, aber es war heiß und wild“? Eben.

Keine Interesse vorspielen!

Aus Liebe zum Parntner interessiert man sich auch für den größten Müll. Wenn du aber Single bist, dann musst du nie wieder sagen: „Oh interessant.“ Sondern du kannst beim Date einfach sagen: „Nö, interessiert mich kein bisschen. Tschüss!“

Am schönsten ist es dennoch zu zweit :)

Wie verbringst du deine Single Zeit ?

Liebe Grüße,
Xoxo Anni

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Ich genieße das Dasein als Single, weil ich mein Leben völlig selbstbestimmt führen kann. Und wie du schon geschrieben hast, liegt in jeder neuen Begegnung ein Hauch von Spannung und Abenteuer.

Da hast du sowas von recht :)

When you are single. wherever you go there is nothing to get in your way. there is nothing against you

Well, one of the advantages of being single is also that you can travel more and to completely random location, and more easily... Of course, it's always better to share holiday times with people, but at least, you are free to do so your own way if you want :) Being single for a long time be a burden, it's true, especially when all your friends are in relationship and you are the last one and no one has time for you anymore. I know it by experience.

Yes it is. You are so right and it is true.

noce :) please vote me friend

It's interesting to hear your perspective on this. I have only had 2 girlfriends as an adult.

It was nice to have a girlfriend but took a lot of my time. Listening to most women talk is really boring for me. Also going to a restaurant with a women is horrible I hate it.

Ok. Mhh maybe you can do some things with your girlfriend what you like doing in your freetime?

I like hiking in a nature... also I like cooking steaks and fish. I guess it would be ok with a woman.