My husband and I ran away to get married. I started planning a wedding and my mom became all bridezilla and she was not even getting married! So we went to a place that allowed up to twenty guests, I let my bridesmaid pick her own dress so that she would wear it more than once, and we had our reception at a pizza joint. It was the best decision we ever made! I never saw it as fair that you choose your bridesmaid and then you make her wear whatever. Pick a color and let them pick their own dress. But maybe I was just a lax bride.