QUIT!!!

in steemit •  7 years ago  (edited)

1 Comparing yourself to others on social media.
This is not healthy. Comparing yourself to other people messes up your self esteem. You always have to remind yourself that no ones life is what it seems on social media.

  1. Complaining :
    When you complain you train your brain to look for patterns in things you don't like. Complaining doesn't solve anything. Instead of complaining about a problem non stop, keep quiet and work on solving the problem
  1. Trying to please everybody:
    Stop!!! You really can't please everybody. You have to know that no matter what you do or how well you treat people someone out there will always see the bad in the good you do. They are evil. Live your life.

  2. Trying to perfect:
    No human being on earth is perfect. Pastors are not perfect nobody is. The Pope isn't perfect. The sooner you realize this the better for you.its really ok to mess up at times. Its ok not to have a clue about what to do. You are a work in progress. Love your self. I have weirdly shaped feet but I still flaunt them.I really don't care what people think about it.stop trying to be perfect for imperfect people.

  3. Accepting less from people:
    Stop ignoring your worth just to please people. Really life is too short to settle.if you ain't getting what you feel you deserve walk away.

  4. Remaining in toxic relationships:
    Being in a toxic relationship drains you of you. You slowly loose yourself. You feel you are worthless. So watch out for toxic people In your life and cut them off. They are weeds

You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be loved. You deserve to be appreciated.

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Studies have shown that people that spend more time on facebook are likely to be depressed
We judged by the beautiful pictures we see on facebook not knowing they took it in their bosses toilet....
Comparing is just so bad
I love this

Try adding pictures or gifs to your post @cheq

Thank you and thanks for the advice.

I wish my friend would read this. Nice motivational post.

Thank you

I really enjoyed your motivational post @cheq.

Have a wonderful weekend.

Thank you