The JEALOUSES and their consequences

Jealousy arises from the emotion that is generated because of the need to possess the other person exclusively, this happens when the mind feels the threat or pretends to believe that it can lose that individual. Commonly this occurs in couples of all kinds, although it is also frequented in the relationship parents-children, siblings, friends among others.
In many opportunities we can misunderstand jealousy and envy since both have the same purpose that would be: Own, however in the case of envy it is manifested with the intention of obtaining what the other acquires and I do not possess and is commonly a negative feeling that consequently generates the same negative action. Jealousy in relationships is considered necessary as long as the limits and rules of the other are respected.

But why does this feeling originate from an early age? The first thing we should notice is our family context, since today our homes are dysfunctionally shaped, that is, we have formed our personality in homes where there is a mother and there is not even the awareness of who is the father of the children in formation. Psychology is said that a child needs his mother until age 5, while the father until age 18. Being in the current reality the absence of the father a great deterioration in the families.
Then it grows with insecurities, fears and above all empty and that emptiness that feels try to fill them in third parties that in many cases end up worsening those fears and voids

That is why from that factory called Familia we must cultivate values and respect even with all the absences, mistreatment and emptiness that is mostly not responsible, where it can be taught with limits and rules, it will improve every home and a greater promise of for life in the field of couples and marriages. And that a feeling of so few letters does not end up ending relationships so united and necessary for many people in our personal context.