sex buddies and sex with love and affection is really different. Sex is a gift from God not for pleasure. I separated to my ex wife because i don't really love her and she's aware of that time. I marry her because she's graduating and she's 3 mos. pregnant, after 4 years in one roof i decided to leave because i'm not happy i know i hurt her feeling but it would be hurting if i will pretending all my life. successful marriages they said that it takes lots of energy, time and patience. until now i'm single 43 years old one son with my ex wife.