The question that men do not understand women have some scientific basis. A group of researchers at a major university a group of researchers at a major university in Baghdad conducted a study to determine whether there was a connection between a blind eye and function of the amygdala and neuronal system.
The study found that indeed the men surveyed had less ability to infer or understand mental states expressed by women. The researchers noted that the difficulty in recognizing emotions, may be rooted in the activity of the amygdala and the limbic system of the brain.
Beyond neural issues, women can be as easy or difficult to understand how any man. At the end of the day, men and women want the same thing: that love us, respect us and treat us well, simple.
It is also true that women are not quite direct at times to say things, either courtesy or not to make us aggressive reputation.
For these situations, we collect some of the most frequently misunderstood phrases and their real meaning.
"Are you really really want to go to that meeting or party? This question is a subtle way of saying, "The truth would rather have not see the face of your friends or your family. Better not go and make another plan. "
"OK, then, do what you want." Remember that not always have to interpret the words literally. "Do what you want," obviously does not mean you do what you want, especially if your partner does not match you in whatever you want to do.
"You do not want to ruin our beautiful friendship." This is to let you know that friendly feel no attraction for you, and you do not have the slightest interest in leaving the category "just friends" version.
- "Does this dress make me look fat?", The famous question whose answer should always be "No, not at all" really means, "Please tell me I'm beautiful, because I already tried all the closet and this is the only I left. " Your partner's self-esteem is crucial in the relationship.
"Turn out the lights is more romantic", the proposal may be a call for compassion: "Fattening more than five pounds and do not want to see cellulite". Be considerate of the feelings of your partner.
"I'm not ready for a relationship. It's not you, it's me, I need more space. " One of the most painful phrases of any glossary. Unfortunately, this always means that the only relationship for which it is not ready for a relationship with you is and that the space terms is obviously an area without you.
- "Right now I go out, I'm almost ready". Look for him to expect the positive side, it is always good to find time to clean the contacts on your phone, check mail, or read the online journal. After all, what's the rush when the wait is worth it?
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