Help

Help! What does it real means? Does it really mean "easier for (someone) to do something by offering one's services or resources.
"Roger's companion helped him with the rent"synonyms: assist, aid, lend a (helping) hand to, give assistance to, come to the aid of; More" (Google). If so what happens after you help someone do you constantly just keep helping and just be happy with the fact that you help them. Would it be in appropriate to ask them for help when it's your turn and you need an aid for yourself. Should they just take it upon themselves and do the same for you as you have done for them. Help a four letter word that everyone can say and ask for but who knows what it means or how to give it. If you aid someone but the problem is still occurring did you real help them, is it your fault why there problem will never be solved? In my opinion I believe help is something you can only do for yourself, written plain in the definition TO AID SOMEONE last I checked to aid someone means to be on stand by if there having difficulties with a problem and tell them or show them what they are doing wrong. Although now a days when someone ask for help they expect you to fix everything for them by yourself and if you can't well I guess you were of no help. Although clearly that's not the case because they should be able to have done it really on there own. So my question is when you ask for help do you really know what it means and how can you tell I someone is helping you?