This depends on the couples dynamics. I think it goes down to who handles money better. If the woman handles finances better then it is safe to give the atm to the mrs. if the man handles the money better then leave the atm to the man. But all decision making with regards to finances should be discussed together. And for some men they have their atm with them but they still surrender their money to their wives and just asks for allowance.
unang una Kung happy married Kayo Hindi issue sainyo yang hatian ng Pera ... Wag nyo sakalin isat Isa .. ibgay man nya lhat sweldo / ATM card nya or Hindi.
Hindi parin basehan Ng pag mamahal Yan