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I recently read a great post here on steemit about getting over your ex, as I was typing my comments I realized hey I really know this stuff why not write up a post about it, so here I am ready to give you some advice.

My Background - The Man Whore

I have had many bad relationships and a totally awful previous marriage but I got over it all and I am very happily married to a fantastic woman, my mom always used to say that every pot has its lid, well I certainly found mine even if it took oodles of heartache and time, being a Dominant and somewhat of a man whore is not easy yet alone one with a heart.

The Recipe To Recovery

Lets face it going through a breakup is nasty and going through a divorce is even worse but one thing is for sure YOU WILL GET OVER IT whether you want to or not life must go on and we have no choice but to keep moving forward one step at a time.

• Come to the realization that what you are feeling right now is only temporary it WILL pass!

• Wipe that ex out of your life , bin anything that is a reminder of them and wipe every digital trace this is not done out of being childish but rather a step toward clearing your mind space and keeping it clean.

• Go out have some fun, go dance, bungi jump, ride a bike whatever just go have fun and embrace your freedom, yes it wont be easy but push through and do it, you will come out the other end feeling refreshed, I used to say to myself mrgrey its time to get wild.

• Spend some time with friends or family, the chit chat will take your mind off things.

• Get under, get behind, get on top of someone, whatever your flavor, it helps break the connection but don't get hooked on them something casual and wild works but be sure you are not going to get back with the ex as its a deal breaker. (save this step as a last resort your body is precious).

• Go give yourself some TLC....no not the hand or vibrator kind lol, go get a new hair cut, some clothing, a tattoo or massage there is really allot you can pamper yourself with and its fun.

• Know within yourself that this is a battle of heart, mind and soul but day by day it WILL get better.

• Go out and meet someone new, give it time and don't jump into anything just enjoy their company you may find that the person sitting in front of you has way more to offer you than the person left behind you.

Live Life And Enjoy It Your Lid Is Out There Waiting For You.

Post inspired by @lauralemons most recent work.

https://steemit.com/relationship/@lauralemons/how-to-get-over-the-ex-you-ve-been-dwelling-on#@mrgrey/re-lauralemons-how-to-get-over-the-ex-you-ve-been-dwelling-on-20160806t081802894z