If you don't know her, start off by asking her name. Pay her
a compliment. "That shirt is a great color on you" or
"I couldn't help noticing the way that necklace really brings
out your eyes."
Set up a conversation starter without talking to her. For instance,
if she's wearing a shirt with the logo of a great band on it, and
you have some of that band's music on your iPod, then put your
earbuds on and slightly turn the iPod screen toward her so that
she can see what's playing. Who knows--she might actually start
a conversation with you.
2.Make the first move whilst ensuring you're confident of success.
Truthfully, most girls want guys to make the first move, so think
of a great question to ask her. Even if you don't feel confident
at first, you'll definitely get more comfortable when she responds to you.
Again, if you know her, then ask her something that encourages her to
talk. "What did you do this weekend?" or "How did you do on that project?"
are both easy openers.
If you're feeling really confident, be more direct. You can say something
like, "I was looking for the stars last night, but I couldn't find them,
because they are in your eyes." Or you could say, "I must be a snowflake
because I've fallen for you."
Openers are all about delivery. If you're going with a casual opening
question, then deliver it with confidence and look like you're really
interested in what she has to say. If you're going with the direct
approach, then deliver it boldly. Give her a big smile and make good eye
contact, and laugh a little bit if she does.