世界很大,世界很小

in steemit •  7 years ago  (edited)

  大概是在十七年前的时候,我在北方一座二线城市里做教师,学校里的生活是比较单一的,那时候我每天最大的乐趣有两个,一是每天下晚班后,黄昏的时候去学校附近的夜市上吃上一碗擦疙瘩(面食),然后喝上一大杯扎啤;另一个乐趣就是闲暇的时候去网吧上网,打会游戏,浏览些网页。
 

  就是在那个时候,我浏览到了一个网站,名字至今我还清晰地记得,程序员小辉的网站。我知道小辉应该是个人名,也知道程序员是个高大上的职业,准确讲那时候做程序员是个很神秘的职业,为什么我要这么说?因为在我眼里,能够让一行行代码编程形形色色的我们使用的电脑软件,如魔术般神奇,真是让人非常惊叹。
 

  后来我换了几份工作,期间从前访问过的很多网站都打不开了,其中不乏一些曾经的知名网站,程序员小辉网站好像也改了几次版,但一直都坚持在更新着,我也陆陆续续一直保持着在闲暇的时候也会翻看下这个网站,直到前年七八月份吧,一次无意中我又访问了程序员小辉网站,看到小辉提到了一个神奇的网站(steemit),发文章可以获得收益,从此之后仿佛打开了一个新的世界,我也从这个时候开始认识和了解到了虚拟货币、区块链等相关知识。
 

  时至今日,从我开始接触区块链至今也有近两年,在这过去的近两年中,我收获了许多,不但是学到了区块链相关知识,更是在很多如思维方面改变了我过去的一些思考方式,认识了很多朋友,总之,我因此受益非浅。
 

  有时候我也想过,如果没有我十七年前看到过程序员小辉的网页,如果我没有一直陆续都在坚持阅读他的网站,如果我没有那种时刻对周围新鲜事物保持的那点好奇心,如果。。。我想到今天,我一定不会收获如上很多。
 

  因此我的内心是非常感谢他们,感谢程序员小辉带给我新的东东,不但让我学到很多也让我获益许多。我也感谢那些曾经支持和帮助过我的朋友们,虽然很多朋友至今都未曾见过面,但是我仍然要发自内心的对你们说声谢谢。
 

  今天跟小辉聊,末了他发了个信息给我:世界太小,不是这是(里),就是那里,都能遇得到:)
 

  我深表赞同。这个世界,真的很大,然而这个世界,真的又很小哦。
 

  小辉之前建立了个Steemit中文社区Telegram群组,欢迎大家加入群,你可以访问 https://t.me/cnsteem  , 点击ViewGroup加入群组,详细的内容你也可以看小辉之前发的文章《Steemit中文社区Telegram群组欢迎大家》。

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擦疙瘩 不错不错 山西人?

被你说中了,山西的面疙瘩

大伟哥居然做过老师,

对 :)

相遇相识即是缘,是两个注定了的人必将抵达的终点。

:)

  ·  7 years ago 

惊叹号❗️大伟哥居然当过老师❗️有时候缘分就是这么妙不可言~

对呀

入群围观下,然后睡觉💤

互联网和信息技术将世界带到我们的手中

English Version Of This Article Written By @rivalhw!
Why do we feel anxious / angry / confused?

We are anxious about what hasn't happened yet. We're angry about something that happened. We're confused about what we want. Many of these bad emotions, like diseases, appear in our bodies from time to time, and we are disappointed. Loss, let our life become disorderly or even chaotic.

Why do we worry? Why are we angry? Why do we get confused again?

Most of the time, our anxiety is mainly caused by something that has not happened yet. We are always in anxious moods so that we can exaggerate the negative consequences. However, we rarely spend more time analyzing this anxiety. The reason and try to work hard to solve it.

For example, we are prepared to do an important task. As time goes on, we will increasingly feel anxious. Anxiety may be due to inadequate preparations for ourselves. We may not even begin to formally prepare yet. Or lack of confidence in the preparedness. We are caught in an anxious mood and appear repeatedly. We try to transfer this matter to our attention through other things and even paralyze ourselves. However, we will be disappointed after many times, and it will even make our anxiety worse.

To avoid these negative emotions, the first step is to find the source of the problem. If you want to slow down the continued spread of anxiety, you should immediately start preparing for something to do. Even if you are just starting to prepare, your anxiety will soon ease until you complete the preparation and confirm it again and again. At this time you will no longer be anxious as if relieved.

Another reason for anxiety is that we often “fear” with unknown things. Because of long-term evolutionary reasons, most of us are used to whether or not our body or mind is always in a comfortable position. Unknown things, our hearts are more accustomed to and biased toward those already familiar with the cognitive content, and even some conditions reflect the rejection of new or strange things. The best way to avoid "fear" in the heart of the unknown is to start immediately, move forward into your inner unfamiliar area and become familiar with it.

Under normal circumstances, the anger generated by familiar people is much greater than the anger generated by strangers. We are accustomed to being polite and enterprising to strangers and presenting our friendliest side to others. However, we often give our most impatience and the most irritability of bad temper to the people we know best.

Why do we do this? There are two basic reasons for this. First, we are too impatient with people we are familiar with. Second, we are too urgent for people we are familiar with. The former need me to explain. The second point is explained here. It is not a bad thing to ask a person who is familiar with him. However, because it is too urgent and hasty, it obviously violates the law of the development of things, and as a result it fails to reach the heart of oneself. In the middle of the idea, this time the easiest emotional out of control and angry.

After clarifying the causes of anger, the solution is to prescribe the right medicine, that is, to do things, especially to familiar people, exercise more patience with them. We must convince that gratuitous complaints and criticisms will only make the feelings of both parties worse. Making things worse, even out of control, doesn't help. Really realize that Rome cannot really be built in one day. There must be a process in all things. The result of eagerness for success is often anxious to eat hot bean curd, but it is easier to encourage the seedlings and help themselves outweigh the benefits.

The main reason behind the confusion lies in our ambiguity and uncertainty about our own goals. If a single ship is on the sea, if there is no target, this ship will most likely drift in the sea. People who do not have a clear goal or whose goals are not practically set up are likely to fall into the confusion of their future lives when they encounter problems.

Thanks for sharing this post.

@rivalhw, 佩服!佩服!

哇,有缘自会相见唉

  ·  7 years ago 

世界这么小,希望有机会见见各位大大。

有缘千里来相会

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

人生何处不相逢……感觉这贴以及评论,都是过来暴露年龄的哇 :D

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老师是一个神圣的职业啊,和一群单纯的学生打交道,心灵也会变得纯净。