Christmas in the family.

Christmas celebrations open our souls to give and receive love. Around the fir tree and festive table, the whole family gathers together. We share with joy the joy of the Nativity.

Christmas celebrations open our souls to give and receive love. Around the fir tree and festive table, the whole family gathers together. We share with joy the joy of the Nativity. There are moments of relaxation, positive thinking, battery charging for a new year, for new projects.

Celebrations are the occasion of joy, relaxation and optimism. Whether we go to the mountains with our friends, whether we are at home with the family, it is important to be impressed with ourselves and pleased with the choice made. So we will be able to feel the spirit of the holidays.

Where do we go for the Holidays? Many find themselves in the situation to ask during this period "I choose to spend the holidays as I like it, or I still stay with my family, with my uncles and aunts that bother me horribly? We go to my parents, we go to our societies, reunite with us all home to us or going out with children in the mountains and no longer interested in anyone and nothing? " Psychologist Stefania Nita from the Center for Psychology of Action and Psychotherapy in Bucharest says: "If the decision is made that the first Christmas day is spent in the family, the other holidays should be spent with people close to the age and If we go out with our friends in the city or go to the mountains, it is important to do something special for the holidays so that this period can be distinguished from other festive moments during the year. It is important to spare time for do what we feel we like. At least for the holidays we avoid constraints, obligatory visits, compromises, "sacrifices" for the sake of others.

Especially on holidays, people feel the need to be more free, to relax, to break the jokes and to live the fullest moment of celebration. The fewer bans, the less stress and distress coming from outside. If we spend the holidays only together with our parents, children, grandparents, while we want to be elsewhere, discontent is inevitable. That's why the most appropriate option is to organize Christmas Holidays in such a way that family members can also get together, but feel the feast as they wish. On the first day the traditional meal will be held in the family, after which the following days will be a minivacanta. Only in this way will we really enjoy relaxing and charging the batteries. Once we get rid of shopping chores, the preparation of the festive table, the stress of doing everything at a height, a trip to the mountains is ideal to really get our energy back. That is how we combine the spirit of the holidays and the free time that we value in our favor.

Relaxation, clean air, good pleasure. Is it not a year and a year we deserve to get rid of the kitchen and all the household tasks? Did not we deserve to get rid of running and queues? Do we not deserve to spend together with the soul mate unforgettable moments in a place far from home? Did not we deserve, as parents, to have fun with our children at the sledge, at least for the Holidays? The answer depends on each person's imagination and the way we allow or do not allow us to do these things.

Imagine how beautiful it is in the mountains ... clean air, fir trees, possibly a lot of snow. Let us think about worshiping a glass of champagne at midnight on a ski slope. A unique experience, a bit cold but exciting. Or hang out in the intimate atmosphere of a cottage or hostel, with ancient traditions and customs. Sounds good, is not it?

If the mountain is a too expensive destination or we have not found a place at any guest house, it is not worth sadness. We remain happy to celebrate the holidays in the city where we live or at home, where we feel comfortable and at ease. It is important todo what we feel is good for us.

Thus we will feel free, we will be able to radiate from all our soul, we will feel that we are masters of our own life and of our own choices. And last but not least, we will rest, in the sense that we will benefit from that mental, soul-based recreation that removes stress, tensions and reactivates the inner resources.