Security in Married Life

in steemitachievers •  7 years ago  (edited)

Married life is secured because there is less trouble after marriage. Security is more, compassion and many others things accompanied after marriage makes life easier. After having children, things become more lovable. Having children is a blessing for a woman.

Many things happen after marriage, however, patience, moderate expectations and proper understanding would make things better. Am not sure about love, but there is some maturity in relationship after marriage.

Every woman should have a very good father and a husband, else, she should not be born as a woman. Woman career is also equally important. So, marriage security would give more time for a woman's career. Without marriage, every man and woman, they feel unsecured.

Having children also reduces stress. Playing with kids, having fun with them is amazing. Kids would also make you feel secured and family oriented. Without family, it is hard to live in this society and world. Having a family and kids would make a woman feel like a queen.

There is nothing else in this world that would make one feel secured. A married man or a married woman, feels more secured than the security of the commando or the army. At the old age, the only support that remains is of the husband and the wife for each other. Then, there is no need of searching for God either.

I have seen all this in the life of others. I myself have never experienced it. Even then, I can write about it because I have seen it repeatedly. Ofcourse, there are cases, where marriage turns to be nightmares. The husband tries to kill the wife due to male domination and the woman ditches the husband. Such cases also happen.

But somewhere, after seeing this harsh unsecured life, now I have started feeling that there is security in married life.

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If I see all of this, I want to devorce my wife and marry with her again.

Oh!

This is true. But I feel it even applies to love as well, the longer and more loyal you stay to one person, the greater that love grows. Family is essential to happiness and marriage is the glue that keeps it all together :) Great post!

I think, having a family in itself is a sign of love. Though never experienced it and can't express it fully. We need relationships to stay alive, else we die.

I'm also not speaking from experience ;)

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This depends on the marriage per se..others marry for different reasons than love..
Like teenage marriage in some countries, money reasons or forced to marry because the woman is already pregnant..
Though it would really be nice to say that your marriage has a fairytale ending..😁

Actually, I want to make it happen in real, I know it sounds impossible though.

I think for the marriage to work, it needs to be worked on.. Work on things like how to keep the flame of love burning, on your patience and other ingredients to complete a really great recipe for marriage..
It's almost our 1 year anniversary..a few days from now..but we have been together for 7 years before getting married..i would not say its perfect but we are happy and i guess that's the goal right there. 😁 still working on completing the recipe too! 😅

Great to know that you are happily married and I am still searching for the right man to come into my life. Let's see what happens this year, I am hopeful.

With you in prayers..

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Thank you so much. I need serious prayers for this.

I've prayed for it too but also sometimes we tend to search and look far when the ones intended for us is just right beside us all this time..
My husband is actually the guy who showed interest in me but i rejected because i had a boyfriend at that time.
I didn't realize it then but he waited and waited..
My boyfriend left me for another and he saw how hard it was for me and said why not transfer all that love to him, i still rejected.that's the time he lay lowed and we haven't talked for 2 years then friendster happened and we started chatting. I learned he was a long ways away and he started courting me again..i said he was so far and LDR usually doesn't work.after 2 weeks he came back and he said to give him a chance..we took it slow..we became gf/bf for 2 years and then lived together for 5 and decided to marry for good..
So maybe that someone you are praying for is already there and just haven't noticed yet? 😉

Wow! That makes sense and like a message from God. I will keep it in mind. Thanks for sharing. Maybe I already have someone, but need to see him clearly.