Go against the crowd

Who says a mango can’t be eaten like a banana?
Why do we always have to be with the norm?
What are we scared of, being judged, being isolated?

Ok, enough with the mango; my point is- we often times endure doing things or being with the people that doesn’t live up to our lifestyle just because we are afraid of being isolated, unaccepted.

I used to be friends with group of friends who I thought might be good for me. I’m going, doing, hand by hand with them as a group.
Just like any college student that needs alliances.
Later on, I found out that being friends with people who you thought will be at your back is wrong, rather they stab you in the back.
I didn’t bother to confront, but rather I kept silent.
I have to stay with the norm.

It comes to a point when I see how of a person they are in situations related to your reputation, so I decided not to go with the norm which is finding another group of alliance to tell your story but just let her/them be. I’d rather be alone than wasting time destroying and gossiping about other people.

Which brings so much relief

Really, trust me.
It’s not about being strong,
But about removing toxic people from your life.

@kimmy95