How to train mentally. It is important to know that there is a difference between the shy and shy nature of your children. And sometimes, they are almost identical and hard to distinguish, but obviously, they're different.
Generally, shameless children will feel uncomfortable while in a new environment, but when they start getting to know each other and Close up, then he will no longer be awkward with his condition. As for children who have a cowardly attitude, generally they do not want to appear or even do not want to move more, this is because they feel lack of talent, lack of confidence with what they do, even they tend to feel less intelligent. This cowardly nature that you must overcome to your child. Because if you let this attitude, then it could be a big obstacle later in the future.
Most likely they will not dare to explore their talents or ability to get some other good things for their own lives. Well, when that happens, then you should be able to instill a bold attitude to overcome the fear of children. However, this bold attitude here has nothing to do with great kids in terms of physical fights or other negative things. Because brave attitude here is a positive attitude. And here are some things you can do to foster your child's attitude and courage:
- Show them that you are courage
Whatever we do is a parent's parents, will certainly be imitated by the baby. Therefore, you must make sure that you are doing positive things to imitate your child.
If you have the fear to ride a rollercoaster, then as much as possible you should find a way that you can fight the fear. Then, invite your child to play in the park, and show him that you have the courage to spin on a ride full of challenges.
- Express the courage through family culture
Indeed it is not easy to cultivate the boldness of the child, especially when there is no reason to do so.
But you can handle it in another way, you can tell your baby about some things about your struggle in pursuit of ideals. Or even, you can also tell other things, such as telling an inspiring story of someone who really has the fighting power is also incredible courage.
This is important for you to do, so that your child feel inspired and have a new spirit to be a person much more daring than ever.
- Challenges and praise
Generally, the main instinct that is owned by parents is to protect their baby. However, in order to teach courageous attitudes and attitudes, you should try to reduce a little desire to always protect it wherever and whenever.
You can give your child a bit of a challenge, such as going to a shop around the house without your company. But still, you have to be wary of cheeses in order to ensure no unwanted things happen to your baby, once he returns, you are encouraged to give him a compliment.