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While it is true that when you love someone, you have to take risks. But let us not forget that there should always a thin line between taking risks for the sake of love and disrespecting yourself. That's the main lesson for me before. Once is enough, twice is too much, thrice is stupidity. There will be no excuses after that. You must learn to love and respect yourself sometimes.
We have to choose a person/partner that is worth risking for. Yes, Love is a matter of choice. Choice to hold on or choice to let go based on the relationships' situation. Love is not selfish, It must be equally and willingly given, if not, then I guess Its not love at all.
Someday, you will fall in love with someone who will take away all your worries in life. Someone whom you can consider as your home and comfort zone.
Someday, you will fall in love with someone who brings you closer and closer to God. Someone who respects you and values relationships, who is tired and sick of temporary settlement.
Someday, you will fall in love with someone who does not make you feel worthless. Someone who takes pictures of you randomly and someone who keeps even your selfies.
Someday, you will fall in love with someone who loves your totality. Someone who will love you even though you your imperfect. Someone who loves your flaws, bad sides and madness in life.
Someday, you will fall in love with someone who values and keeps you. Someone who will keep you for a lifetime rather than trying to win you back.
So don't try to awaken love if it's not yet ready. Grow as yourself and enjoy your life first. Learn to know who you really are and what your purpose is. People tend to fail because they chase love not knowing that true love is never to be chased, it comes along by how you deal in yourself and your emotions.