Calling it Quits!!!!

in steemsilvergold •  7 years ago  (edited)

I have had the pleasure of watching a community be built from the ground up. I have seen it struggle and I have seen it prosper. What I haven't seen is much involvement from members when hard decisions have to be made.

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I never asked to be a group mod or to be intitled to any type of position with #steemsilvergold. What I have done tho is try to make the best decisions when asked. Sometimes some people do not see it as the best decisions. I have given countless hours of support and talks to try and make this community grow and be the best community on steemit. I have given with no strings attached to try and grow this group.

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Some people look at me as the bad guy after the staxx fallout. I understand how some could see this But I also understand that no one other than @phelimint and @raybrockman know exactly what I gave to help this community. I have given when no one else would, again with no strings attached. Once I found out that phil was taking ownership of the account then I walked away and walked away at a lost, financially and from a friendship.

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Then 5 of us pulled our shit together to help save the community, spent hours on top of hours in group chats trying to figure out a system that would prevent another staxx situation from happening again. Now some people seem to be upset from the latest group cuts and posssible cuts going forward.

Let me explain this to everyone. There where several post that came out asking for your input and very few had any input to offer. What I will tell you is this, every members receives a vote from @ssg-community. Now the problem with this is not every member post about silver or gold or any precious metals. So ask yourself why are they a member? Is it for the free upvote from @ssg-community. We had members that have over 100,000 steem power using our group to get a vote and not one time every giving us a vote. So @buggedout started polling some data, and trust me when I say the data was overwhelming. The number of members that we have that are active on steemit but not active on #steemsilvergold was overwhelming and had to be corrected. I have no hard feelings towards anyone that do post about other things besides precious metals, but I would have to ask why you are part of a #steemsilvergold group and not post about precious metals????

I had to take a step back for a couple of weeks due to some personal and family issues, this is not all on @silverstackeruk, I did find some time to chat with him about the cuts. And we talked back and forth over the past 2 weeks. The whole time during our talks, what was best for steemsilvergold was always my most important concern.

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This is too much for me to keep contending with. I have several other project that I am currently involved in and still a lot of family issues to contend with as well.

I am a stacker at heart, maybe what should have happened is this, Maybe a new tag should have been created when staxx died. There seems to be a lot of people still hung up on this, and unfortunately they only know half the truth. Yes @raybrockman got a little out of line during the fall out with staxx, but I have apologized and moved on, maybe all of you should as well.

I will be in the shadows for the next week, my youngest son will get most of my attention, this will give me some time to really think about this community and decide if I can still benifit the community by being a part of it.

Best of luck to all of you, keep stacking

@raybrockman

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Ray, thank you for your posting efforts and your contributions.
Brother, take care of you, and never let the bastards get you down.
Steem on, be with family, the summer is young.

I would like to shake your hand Mr.B. You have helped so many people so far and have made some tough decisions for the groups benifit. Enjoy your family time.

Yes I agree ! great comment.😄👍💕

Personal motivation is key. Do as you wish! Take the time you need to evaluate... but I appreciate you very much.

@doctorjohn Congrats on being Splashed by the Pool Today............. Thank You for being here.

I am a little bit lost for words. You've been a huge part of this community since the first day I stumbled over here and I know that stacking is in your blood so I also know you won't get away from the Stackitis that easy my friend!

I understand how easy it is to get burnt out or overwhelmed when trying to show some leadership and make tough decisions in a community like this and it's OK to take a break. Family must ALWAYS come first and you've been through a pretty rough time lately so there is no shame in stepping back to focus on what's REALLY important.

Anyone who's been here a while knows how much you've done for this community. I volunteered to do a job here because I saw something good. This community is not perfect but #SteemSilverGold is not going anywhere. We will be here for you when you're ready.

Thank you @raybrockman for putting this post out there. We can put this behind us and know we have the support of most of the members.

Take a few weeks and dont worry about it, i'll take the hits while staying reserved and thedamus can say the things i really wonna say for me. haha. I took a few days off around a month back and came back brand new :)

We are doing what the community wants

I hope sidewayz a speedy recovery

@raybrockman, you have been a GREAT HELP to me personally, and a wonderful mentor. I know and believe you to be very generous with your time and resources, to me personally and to countless here in the #steemsilvergold community. Just keep doing the good that you do, because if not you, who else will have the same tireless dedication to the ssg-community family? You are an inspiration to many! What matters are those family members who do what is expected of them. It is them, who reciprocate respect, care and support, that really matter. Take the time you need to be with your son. And we will wait for your return. I will be sending you the best thoughts, and will hope that you come back soon. We need you, the community needs you. Take care, my friend.

Brother, i get it... Now is a perfect time to get some fresh air and fresh scope between yourself and this group. Your family wants and needs you, and you could use a break from all the melodrama over here.
Thank You for all you do and all you have done for #steemsilvergold!!! We’ll be here with a cold stackitus of beers when yer ready to come back and Paint it black 😎👍👍

@raybrockman I do not know you on a personal level but I can say this, I am so GRATEFUL today to be involved in the Stacking Community of STEEMIT. I know in talking with Michael @pit-bullion that you would do anything you can to bring people together that have a common interest in a Community. Ray you have GIVEN more than anyone I have seen since I have been on STEEMIT for almost 2 Years. Take a Breather and a Step Back. Family is your most Important Concern right now. We will be waiting to see you when you are ready and your batteries are Fresh.............

Oh man, I didn't realize there was so much going on behind the scenes lately. Sorry to hear about all the drama you are dealing with. To be honest I know I haven't been the best member the past few months because I have been going through a lot in my life lately. Not a great excuse but it is the truth.
I understand you want people who are serious about silver but (if you didn't see my post today) because of you and #steemsilvergold I have started stacking and actually have a pretty nice stack going. I never would have gotten into stacking if it wasn't for steemit and #steemsilvergold, so I think you might be affecting people more than you even realize. You have created an interest in silver for me and inspired me to stack (and to many more to count I'm sure). I don't post as much as I should about silver but I do curate and comment a lot in the group and try to be part of the discussions. But I feel that I could do better so I am part of the problem as well.
Sorry a lot of this bullshit has landed on you, that is unfair considering you have always been so great to everyone. You really don't deserve that shit, so I understand your position. I am sure the tag would suffer greatly if you left, but you aren't obligated to do anything and you have certainly done enough to help the tag thus far.
I hope you do whatever makes you happy and is best for you and your family, but either way I will always be thankful that I met @raybrockman and he got me into stacking silver! Thanks for everything my man.

I appreciate all you have done for the community. Please take this time to spend with your son and know the metals mafia has your back

Ray it has been an honor and a privilege to get to know you over the last year or so. You have done a ton for everyone here.

Hope to see you around brother. If you're not around I'm sure you know how to get ahold of me 👊🏻☠️

Ssg aint nothin with out ya Ray. Take a steem vacation and recharge your battery bro

Family is always have to be the first attention for everyone coz only they can help you in hard times. and don't worry about the community.i know you will take a way out of it. descison of every member is important before coming to a solution. whatever you do in favour of this community should definetely help solve the problem. best of luck.

Ray you have always been selfless in every aspect to help this community. Thank you for everything that you have done, it is much appreciated and does not go unnoticed. Take the time that you need and all the best to a speedy recovery. 👍

@raybrockman I personally greatly appreciate all the time and effort you have put in towards this community. I am entirely unaware of the specific situation you mentioned. Everyone has their moments though! Your overall positive impact here seems to be of the highest levels. Wish you the best with your son and hope your back here 100%. 👊

Take care of your family. I have very much valued your generosity, expertise and friendship. Hope you come back better than ever, when you're ready.

@raybrockman I know that I have not been as involved with #steemsilvergold as much as I should have been, and I am not always the most up to date with some of the occurrences.
However, I do know this. When I began on steemit and steemsilvergold you replied to me and helped me. While I have been trying to keep on this platform during some busy times; I know I have seen you ask difficult question about our community and for input. I know personally I have answered at least three post discussing ways to streamline and make our community more effective. I appreciate you doing this because thats what a leader does. I know you say you did not ask to be involved as deep as you are, however that is what makes you good at it.
I know that family always comes first and I wish you the best dealing with what is happening in your life. I will say that I know you are generous and willing to do what must be done and that makes you such a benefit to the community and platform that words can not say.
I hope all goes well in your personal life and I hope that you continue to be a fixture with #steemsilvergold . Be safe brother and you are in our thoughts and prayers.

its such a great post

Ray let me start by saying that I have nothing up the upmost respect for you and all the other members who have taken leadership roles. I can assure you that everything you have done for the community will never go unnoticed and is greatly appreciated!

You guys have made everything very open and democratic, which will help us all become stronger as a community. Without people like you, @welshstacker, @thedamus, @buggedout, @silverstackeruk, and the rest of the #ssg community, we would not be the silver and gold stacking community that we are today.

Family comes first, so take as much time as you need we will all be here happily awaiting :)

I really don't know what to say, but hopefully some new changes or new growth will make the path ahead clearer. So much is young and new still ... see how it goes. Peace

Thank you for your continued support of SteemSilverGold

Good luck,

Take some time for you and your family Ray ! I for one have you to thank for where I am right now on steemit !!! Do stay tho ,this place needs you !!!!

Much respect brother.

Take your time and relax. Hope everything goes well with the family and see you back when you are ready bud.

I would have to ask why you are part of a #steemsilvergold group and not post about precious metals????

It might be worthwhile looking into a bot that votes based on the #steemsilvergold tab, rather than by account. People may still abuse the tag, but at least it would be easier to monitor. This would result is less upvoting, but perhaps higher percentage voting as well, encouraging more silver/gold posts. @ironshield

I should have had ssg on my steemvoter from the beginning! I've managed to allow my VP to restore from 20% to 60%. I've reactivated my steemvoter and added ssg-community. I also have some SP coming back sometime this wook from the old staxx bot, maybe I can chip in some sp delegation too.

Rest Recover Recoup. And i applaud your help for making some of the tough descisions with regard to peiple walking the plank

Thank you for everything you have done for this community, blessings.

Awesome content,,
Thanks for sharing Family time

Ray, take a well earned break and take care of Sidewayz. We know your stackitis will bring you back, but making sure your boy is on the mend is #1. Hope to see you posting again soon!

Big Love Ray, to you and your family, please don't let this get you down the people your talking about are just ignorant and don't deserve your time. You are a legend! Hope you get your family problems sorted, mine are settling down at long last! See ya soon bud:-)

Man I hope it work's out for you Ray,Your a role model and pillar in the stacking community!See you soon we all hope!

Ray, you have been an incredible support for the group. I appreciate all that you have done. Your support and decisions have always been well thought out.
The family is number one always. Another proper thought and decision.
I pray for you and your family and for STRENGTH for YOU and ALL.

Thanks for all you’ve done for the #steemsilvergold community

Family always comes first bud. Do what you gotta do.

You gotta take care of your own first man. I know you’ve done a lot for this community. I’m sorry if I had any hand or affect in your decision or upset you in any way. Or this may just be you needing a break. I’m sure what you have done as a mod is very time consuming and maybe doesn’t reward you enough for the time spent on it.

Have a good week with your family and I wish you the best in your further endeavors.

Sincerely

Cryptokeepr

I am quite new here...I want to thank you, for this group is outstanding!! Don't stay away too long. Remember all: Silver to "take off" about mid summer..getting very, very interesting.

@raybrockman you’re one of the reasons I’ve been so excited about the SSG community. There’s definitely been good times and bad. I wish you and your family the best. Please get a chance to recharge and we’ll be right here for you buddy!

Prayers and best wishes for your family Ray. Only you can decide what's best for you, but I think I speak for everyone when I say that you are very much appreciated.

You saw a need and contributed. No shame in stepping away for a bit. I would not want to see the #steemsilvergold tag change or go away. I guess nobody really owns a tag anyway. Take some time to reflect on the things that are really important. The community will be here when you get back.

I appreciate what you've done. I hope you return.

Remember, you can't please everyone. Enjoy your family time and reset & refresh. There is a lot of drama around here sometimes, nobody can stay away from silverporn and stackitis for too long :) Hope we keep seeing you around xox.