At the beginning of a relationship we are in love and those defects of the other go unnoticed or do not bother us, but once time passes there are things that become unforgivable.
Why does a relationship end? The most common response is that love is over, but an investigation detected that certain habits of our partner became unbearable, even being a reason for a break.
What habits can lead to a breakup?
"It's not you, it's me", a typical phrase to inform our partner that we want to end the relationship, but the truth is that in some important cases the fault is the other and its unbearable defects.
An American investigation surveyed more than 5500 to know what habits bothered them so much as to break a relationship and the interesting thing is that there are not many differences between what makes them crazy and them.
For heterosexual women, the fact that their partner is lazy is the main defect they can not stand, being present in 72% of cases. Laziness bothers heterosexual men less, for them a disorganized appearance or little clean is the worst, being important for 63% of respondents.
The carefree or unwashed appearance is also important for the girls, but it occupies the second place and 71% of them considered it a defect that could lead to break a relationship. Males placed second place laziness, with 60%, as you may have noticed these bad habits were reversed in importance in the lists for both sexes.
The third place is shared, it is about requiring too much attention from the couple, something that men and women hate.
Behaviors that will leave you single
In the study, participants had to choose six habits considered relevant enough to influence the decision to end a relationship and while the first three were common in both sexes, the others are not so much.
To them the lack of sense of humor, self-confidence and bad sex complete the six ways of being or defects worthy to return to singleness, while men consider that important reasons to break the relationship are living more than three hours of the other , coinciding with the girls in sense of humor and sex.
41% of women consider that the fact that their partner spends a lot of time in video games is an unbearable behavior, but they only named it 25% of the cases.
Examine how you are and if you think that you show any of the habits or defects named it is time to change, since love is not enough for a relationship to be lasting and sooner rather than later you will return to singleness.