Depress Fest😭/ Residence Permit Obtaining Issues😩

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You know when you feel sad and feel down you have this sudden urge to listen to sad songs, watch sad movies and feel even more sad?

I was so depressed today, it was a depression fest for me and my hubby

I’m trying to get my residence permit to move to Europe, applied exactly one year ago and got rejected, then dried up my tears and reapplied in July 2017 again, did my interview and still waiting up till now. It’s been half a year since the second application.God knows how many papers we have collected...

What’s the most frustrating - no one is able to tell us how much more time it will take, we just have to sit and “patiently” wait. But I already have this “luggage” kinda mood, can’t wait anymore just want to settle in one place and get my life going. Feels like I’m stuck somewhere in between the worlds😔

The decision after interview can take them up to one more year...

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I think after all we have been through with this, I’m gonna seriously get drunk when I get the positive result and get drunk even more if the result will be negative, and I’m not even a drinker!

Who faced or is facing the same problem?Please share your stories in the comments, especially if they are the ones with a happy end😂

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Stay strong, keep beiliving, have end goal but live in the right now moment because next to you still got your hubby :). I know what it feels like as mine took 7 years to come throught....

Thank you!

waiting for something with plans is the worst time in life emotionally

I hope you get a positive response this time :)

Thank you, me too!;)

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I'm sure it will work out in the end! I'm going through a similar issue right now with getting my residence permit for China. The problem is more to do with the whole country more or less shutting down for Spring Festival for two weeks though.

Thank you;)
I understand, I remember I was also preparing a bunch of docs for my residence permit, not fun at all

Dealing with government beauracrcy is such a nightmare it can take so long and is so frustrating
I hope you get some good news soon

It’s the right word for it - a nightmare!Thank you;)

your welcome

Don't be sad @damira just be happy. Always remember that there's a rainbow always after the rain. All is going to be fine.

Thank you;)

Sorry to hear about the struggles. A happy ending will come!

ps - drinking is not always the answer to a negative problem, sometimes it can make the depression worse! That being said... sometimes a drink is all you need!

Cheer up my friend, all will be resolved eventually!

I know it’s not a solution, I was just kidding;)))Hopefully it will all be clear soon😊Thank you!

Can't wait to see all the pictures from Sweden :)

Thanks so much for sharing a photo. You shared this photo. It is very nice. This is an awesome photo. @damira

so this is what life is about; challanges, hopes,expectations and hopefuly happy ends..

I guess so;)

What a complicated problem, I have never experienced it so can not share my experience here. I'm just sorry about the problem you're facing. Hopefully this problem will be resolved soon and the results will match your expectations.

A little advice, if sad should not be too deep with the sadness. Because it will be bad for your psychology and your health. Keep the spirit and do not give up, if it fails then try again and again.

There is a saying "Failure is the beginning of a success".

Thank you, you are very kind!Im okay, just the situation is frustrating is all🙃

Yes, this situation is indeed frustrating. But, do not be discouraged :)

you are too pretty to be depressed @damira ! greetings from Spain! :)

😁😁😁😁thanks!Greetings from China))

Wishing you the best always!

Thank you so much😌

gosh, I'm stuck, too!
I have been waiting for a contract signing with a Tanzanian government agency since last year..it's been delayed for four months already..I've been "the lugguage mood" for four months..
I believe God allowed this to happen to make me a patient person.. the very same may apply to you, dear.

Thanks a lot!Hope everything works out for you as soon as possible!

Did you ever want something to happen in the past and when it did happen it was the perfect timing? Sometimes waiting can be the blessing cause the perfect moment hasn't happened yet. You will only know till after it happens.

Kind of like the father that was excited to go to America, then his son got sick and the family couldn't go. He got so angry at his son for getting sick. Sometime later he went and hugged and kissed his son and cried. You see they were going to go to America on the Titanic. When the father learned that most died in the Titanic he was so grateful that his son had gotten sick and held the family back from that trip.

Thanks a lot for your support!It’s a very nice story!

I'm sure that you guys are very frustrated especially since I believe that your husband has an EU passport.

I have seen many, many positive outcomes in situations a lot less hopeful than yours! Your story will end well I'm sure!

Thank you so much for your kind words!Yeah, he does have an EU passport, it’s just regulations are becoming more and more strict each year.But oh well, we are still very hopeful to get a positive answer soon;)