My friend, loneliness

in story •  7 years ago 

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Unlike many people, my loneliness gives me calm, makes me happy.

Loneliness is my accomplice to do the things that I like, do not criticize me only accompanies me, does not think, let me think and analyze what I do and what not.

Loneliness does not bother me, it does not ask for anything.

With her I listen to music, with her I speak, I do not receive answers, but that is worth more than any opinion at times.

I will be one of the few beings that feels at ease with him.

I hate the annoying sounds, that stun and more if I generate them, I sometimes bother to hear people complain, without seeking solutions and what they do is intoxicate you with that vibe

Many songs talk about her.

It is not easy to deal with loneliness, if you are not independent enough and need someone's company to feel good, is very bad companion, and you will not bear what hides within.

Loneliness gives a sense of peace and tranquility, in meeting with oneself, helps you to know yourself.

Since I have use of reason, or since I have memories, she was always present, this will seem sad to some, but my meals were alone, my parents worked all day, I think I only had dinner with them, and I learned not to depend from someone to feel good, maybe that's why my imagination is very wide, I had a lot of time to think.

At 16 I no longer lived in my house (I went to study far and was an intern) on vacation I went to my house or some weekends. And I had to walk alone, to travel alone, in order to defend myself and myself.

And the one that always was she, the loneliness, I still love to eat alone, and sometimes walk alone, once again it is good to go out with friends and have fun, I am not crazy crazy, not to the point to the limits.

She is a good friend, I am against such famous phrases as: loneliness is a bad counselor, the best state of the human being is to be in a couple, among others.

The best state of the human being is to love and accept as it is! You do not need the approval of ANYONE, be as you want to be, love yourself first, and then love others.

I am a mother, I love my son, but first I love myself, if I am well I know that I can give the tools to him to be an independent man.

Those who read me do not look for anyone to want them to be happy, if someone makes it good welcome be, but do not limit your life, to find someone special, because the more special YOU.

KISSES, GREETINGS.

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Well said, I totally agree with you, but unfortunately some people stay with their loneliness for their whole life and can't find anyone whom they can love with all their heart.

it is difficult to find the balance

"...if I am well I know that I can give the tools to him to be an independent man." I like this.

thank you

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thanks, I very happy