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Ah man. Dudes like this all over Japan. And you never know if they are just lonely old dudes or pedos, or both.
The first time it happened to us some guy was hovering around us at a festival, and then just started snapping pics of Isaiah without asking.
The friend I was with said it was “no big deal” because “this is Japan,” but I am not cool with that shit either. My wife didn’t seem too bothered, either, but agreed it was weird.
I wonder if it is the collectivist/group culture thing gone haywire? Most folks ask permission and have some basic social skills but then there’s these others....
As a final example of lack of boundaries, some lady and her daughter walked up our driveway the other day, while we were outside, saying nothing to us, to play with the pinwheel in our garden.
We said “hello,” and didn’t get a response. Nope. Just ignore these fools and walk right up to their house in front of them.
My lady also turned Godzilla at some point (mad props to your wife, by the way!) and said “Hey, if you’re going to come into our yard and play with our stuff please at least say ‘hi’ to us and ask.”
The lady said something like “We always come into your yard” and left.
Weird shit, my man.
What’s funny is that creepy old guy in your picture has the same fucking smile as the ones here.
Babies are cute, but goddamn. If you’re collecting photos of other people’s children.... You at the very least need some lessons in social boundaries. Don’t wanna imagine the worse. Either way man, it’s his BS. Not yours. And you know how to call that shit out now.
NICE SELFIE!!!!
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...perfectly said, you don't know if they're lonely old dudes or pedos. I'd feel so bad if he was just a lonely old dude who thought your kid was cute. But then again, that was so weird! Great story!
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Weird shit for sure lol you must've been dumbfounded by that lady's answer. Hanna respects the props haha sends them your way too! Yeah I mean, some things can't be avoided, but we can learn and do with it appropriately if it ever happens again. Like you said in one of your videos, you have to let things out if something bothers you - I will try to adhere to this principle from now on.
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That's pretty messed up. I get a lot of school girls who want to take photos posing with one of my kids. I can understand that one. The kawaii culture, the idea that mixed kids are the ultimate in cute, and the schoolgirl selfie thing combined. But middle aged men.... that guy was definitely on the creep side.
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Yeah man I wouldn't mind if it was like teenagers or kids asking first and then taking pics of my kid or together with him, but this is totally different. It was pretty messed up. LOL
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Guess who found their pw.
Yes, there are weirdos everywhere. Coming from someone who's been accosted (and fought back) in several continents. It's good to standup to people and put them in their place, bc most people shy away and don't want to make a scene. I live for the scenes! Several times I fell asleep on a train/bus in Toronto, and some weirdo older man was touching me.... Sickos everywhere. Stay strapped always.
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With a camera aimed at cats, that get too close, sneak up on you and pat you on the back,
kick back and relax, paint the windows with what's underneath their hat, I'm back on tracks, verbal, and written, haters tried to beat me down, but their girl was smitten, from tiger cub, to full grown, they wanna throw hands/ they get bitten, mnk 99 all day, from here, till the NSA, and FBI take me out the game, voices may, but I never changed, always been the same, how can I xplain, in this mentally, before my inception, and conception, no misrepresension, nor aprehension, lyricists get slain, before MANIK ever hit the blockchain. That's just a comment, tell mofos in TO, I'm back to HAUNT IT.
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You should record this and post it to @dsound
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I completely understand your thoughts. I was thinking if I would have refused the offer at the beginning, not sure actually. But maybe it would be better as to teach our kids to not take anything from people they don’t know.
We have this weird woman walking here dog around and if we are in front of the house or the door is open she comes close to stare inside to check out where my daughter is. Would rather like to just chase here away some blocks
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Exactly man, my wife and I talked about this after and we decided that we should start teaching our child not to take things from random people. However in Korea everyone is so friendly and sometimes refusing something from someone could be deemed rude. I guess there needs to be a balance and everything. And just like the case with that woman walking by your house, if the person is not mentally stable then that's kind of forgivable, but at the same time who knows what goes on in their heads - they could be normal (whatever that means) and just act plain stupid or inconsiderate at which point I lose all sympathy for such people. Stay away from her dog as well man lol!
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Man. Weirdos all over. As I mentioned in my comment below, I think some of this has to do with the village/collectivist/“we’re all
family” type culture in Asia. The folks on the fringe are extra fringe-y.
Some are definitely mentally unstable as Kali implied, too. Which is why I try to exercise restraint and compassion...but we gotta preserve our boundaries.
As a fucking grumpy propertarian, if they don’t ask, say hello, smile or explain, then they need to fuck off.
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people will be people no matter what they look like or where they are from . The creeps always try and take advantage of our good nature . No harm was done which is nice . I spent a year there in 98-99 man has that place change .
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That's what I'm saying, gotta keep our guards up at all times. Never know who's lurking in the shadows of life. 1998 huh? Service or just visiting?
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Service , it was between Camp Casey and Stanley If you know where they are or were . I can't remember how to spell the place lol Long time ago
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Cool. Just learned something:
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Thanks for sharing this story about Korea.
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As you can see it's not always peachy here. :-)
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Usually I don't pay any attention to creepo swavays, but when kids are involved it gets me super pissed!
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Ha ha things happened to me here before, but never when I was with my kid. It was a very awkward situation for me.
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In my opinion, the human beings are great technology itself and we release energy in the environment and these energy as positive energy or negative energy, the action can be fake the vibes cannot and whenever you receive negative vibes no matter how good actions around you, there is something wrong. So, don't worry but just observe the environment. Thanks for sharing this experience with us and wishing you an great day. Stay blessed. 🙂
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Yeah man we talked about this on discord last night and you're right - be observant and stay rational at all times.
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Yes.
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Look on the brightside, you've already made $20 dollars off of this experience, it could have been worse . Don't take candy from strangers.
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I had to compensate for the moral damage! And yes, no more candy from strangers around here. Or anywhere for that matter.
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