Friend

Only a deep understanding of your weakness can become your faithful friend. The depth of friendship is not only the friend for you to admire to what extent, he is to tolerate your weakness to what extent.

Too stronger than you, you can not become friends. Then you too weak, you disdain to make friends with him. Only with you if the quality of people, most likely to become your friend. So, who is your friend, who is your life scale?

The more friends you have more friends busy is your life finely chopped for friends to share. The result is more busy friends more, your friends are always busy out to you day in and day out, busy people, even the old friends will gradually lose. Keep chopped to friends who maintain their own integrity, but also in the helpless loneliness. Complete itself means alone.
Friends were hurt often extraordinarily painful. Because I hurt the place is always the most delicate place, harm yourself is the most should not, on this hurt and totally unprepared...... friends were hurt caused by mental pain is far more than the reality, of which there is a majority of injured self-esteem exaggerated.

“Life is a bosom friend”, the number of minimum requirements for your friend, it is the highest expectations for the quality of friends.
The first factor is the understanding between friends. However, in real life, we often see that two people could not understand each other already eager to become friends. This deeper friendship is deep misunderstanding, misunderstanding accumulated to a certain extent, friendship will, in turn, hurt both sides. Even after they still don't know why the injured. So friendship is more terrible than clear hatred.

The second element of friendship is equal. Even if two people the status of the poor, but the spirit must be on an equal footing. This friend no matter how strong it is not overlooked that friend, the friendly little should not worship the friends.

And friends, the most difficult is to maintain a certain distance. In the distance, neither for distant friends, not lost their independence.