Life will always give you the answer.
A traveler saw a mother - in - law near a big river and was worried about crossing the river.
Exhausted, he used all his strength to help her mother-in-law cross the river, and after crossing the river, she said nothing and hurried away.
The traveler was very disappointed.
He felt that it was not worth exhausting to help her mother-in-law because he didn't even get the word "thank you".
A few hours later, when he was too tired to walk, a young man caught up with him.
The young man said, thank you for helping my grandmother. My grandmother told me to bring something for you to use.
Then the young man took out the food and gave him the horse in his crotch.
You don't have to be in a hurry to give you all the answers, sometimes you have to be patient and so on.
Even if you shout to the hollow, wait for a while before you hear the long echo.
In other words, life will always give you the answer, but it won't tell you everything right away.
In fact, time is a crisscrossed tree.
And life is a bird flying in and out of it.
If one day, you had a cold freezing rain in life, your heart has to afford, so, would you please wait a moment, also want to know, the big tree is the lee of the life for you to create a spring weather, and close to you bit by bit, as long as you work hard.
The payoff doesn't have to come immediately after giving.
As long as you are willing to wait, the beauty of life, always in your casual time, dress up.
Everything is the best arrangement.
When you are in adversity, feel hard, love, work, career, ideal is a mirage, the heart of despair, might as well look at this problem from a different Angle, tell yourself, everything is the best arrangement, the blessing to dependency, Ann know the future will not change in surprise?
Here's another story:
There was a king who liked to hunt, and he went on a private visit with the prime minister.
"Everything is the best arrangement," says the prime minister's most frequent phrase.
One day, the king went hunting in the forest. An arrow shot down a leopard.
The king dismounted the leopard.
Who would have thought that the leopard, with its last effort, would jump at the king and bite off the king's little finger.
The king called the prime minister to drink, but the prime minister smiled and said, "your majesty, if you want to open a little, everything is the best arrangement!"
The king was very angry. "what would be the best arrangement if you were put in prison?"
The prime minister smiled and said, "if so, I am convinced that this is the best arrangement."
The king was so angry that he was sent to prison.
A month later, the king was injured and went out alone.
He came to a remote mountain forest, and suddenly he ran down a group of aboriginal people from the mountain, tied him up and brought him back to the tribe!
The primitive tribes on the mountain would descend on the full moon to find the victims of the goddess of the full moon, and the natives prepared to burn the king.
When the king of despair, the priest suddenly frightened to disgrace, he found the king of the little finger little XiaoBanJie, sacrifice is not perfect, received such offering full moon goddess will be angry, and so the natives will be the king.
When the king was mad, he returned to his palace to release the prime minister, and the king said to the prime minister, "what you say is really good, and sure enough, everything is the best arrangement!
If it hadn't been bitten by a leopard, it wouldn't be alive today.
The king suddenly thought of something, asked the prime minister: "but you have been in prison for no reason for more than a month, this again how to say?"
Prime minister leisurely drink a sip, said: "if I'm not in a prison, then accompany you must be my tiny a private tour, when indigenous people found the king you are not suitable for sacrifice, wouldn't it be my turn?"
The king could not help laughing and said, "sure enough, everything is the best arrangement!"
This story is telling us a truth: when we meet the wrong things, it must be the best arrangement!
Don't be upset. Don't be depressed.
Put your eyes on the horizon, increase your horizons, don't feel sorry for yourself, and don't complain, always be optimistic and strive, believe that there is no way out.
"Everything is the best arrangement", this is the psychological hypnotist's likes to tell a story, because in their view, the subconscious mind is very powerful, and it is no judgment, as long as you input the correct instructions and procedures, and it will follow and work.
Hypnosis is the fastest way to influence the subconscious mind and reshape the subconscious mind.
And this story has positive implications, it turns out to be very powerful, a lot of people after hearing this story, will change in life, but also in later life continue to prove this sentence.
In fact, as long as we reflect on everything in life, we can also say to ourselves, "everything is the best arrangement."
When someone around you sends out a distress call, such as a low mood, a tantrum, or an abnormal behavior, tell him about the story, and psychological counseling is far more effective than some preventive measures.
So, everything is the best arrangement, to be grateful for what has happened in your life.