Love

Put two sworn enemies of opposite sex in the same apartment and let them live together for a year....in most cases,they become friends and probably fall in love.
We have heard of ladies and guys falling in love with people in their work place,church,neighborhood and we have read stories of kidnapped ladies falling in love with the kidnappers after spending some days together in their hideout.
What is the point?
Many of us usually want to ensure that all conditions are right before we start an affair with someone....we want to be sure of our feelings,the compatibility,the chemistry and so on but it needs not be this way.
There is nothing like love at first sight but if you only give that guy or lady the chance to develop a regular closeness with you,both of you may likely form a bonding and be fond of each other which is stronger than "love".
You really dont have to be in love with someone before you can start a purposeful romance...as a guy,as long as you like what you see and as a lady as long as you know he really wants you,give each other a chance,get closer and grow in love just as most of our parents did.
I don't know if this makes sense.

Cc: nairaland