There is no such thing as 'Self-Help' and free will is just an illusion

Maybe you've already spent thousands on books, courses and workshops that are labeled 'Self Help'...
and still your life sucks. Yup, you are not alone there!

Expensive workshops and seminars that help just one person: He who sells the tickets for them. :)

After 7 days, 70% of everything you heard is gone, you simply don't remember a word of it.
After 2 weeks that has grown to 90-95%. Buy buy money.

It takes 30 days to develop a habit.

A habit is an action based on your subconscious believes. Your subby makes ALL decisions.
In fact, free will is just an illusion. Your subby decides, about 7 seconds before you consciously become aware of the choice made. 

So, if you ever want to change your life, it's your subby that needs to be worked on.
Your subby holds your blueprint, your belief system. Change the belief system and you'll make different choices, different actions that will lead to different results.

How do you change that blueprint? Watching YouTubes or reading a few books will not do it.
It can only be done by putting in the hard mental labor. Daily work to embed a new belief system in that subconscious mind.

Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

A well known book. What most people do not know, is that it is a blueprint to success. 403 highly successful people have been interviewed and the findings from these interviews are described in this book.
Follow exactly what is described there and you too can become successful.

Your outer world is a perfect reflection of your inner world.

Any change you'd desire in your outer world can only be reached by changing your inner world.
Changing your inner world requires awareness, the willingness to change, the commitment to put in time on a daily basis.

The only thing man can 100% control is his mind. Yet, only a small percentage of all people take that control.

To take control you'll have to rediscover who you authentically are. You'll have to discover your purpose in life, embed that in your subby, focus, visualize, smell, breath, feel it...and every action you'll take will be to advance you towards your goals.

So, are you ready and willing to take that control?