You're not going to get anywhere by seeking validation from your friends. How do you really expect to succeed by surrounding yourself with people who only say only what you want to hear? Are you looking to appease your ego? Or are you looking to grow and transform?
How about finding a mentor or guide who will push, test, and challenge you? One who will not say what you want to hear....but who will say what you NEED to hear. One who will inspire you to go further, instead of those who keep telling you that 'You're Fine ' staying exactly where you are.