RE: Sex Dolls and Robots to Replace Human Intimacy, Connection and Relationships

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Sex Dolls and Robots to Replace Human Intimacy, Connection and Relationships

in technology •  7 years ago 

I say live and let live, if it's not harming any others. If someone needs a sex doll, it's their dime, their reasons - either they will find it fulfilling or they won't. People do figure these things out on their own. None of us can stop them anyway. The only ones who have a reasonable complaint are prostitutes - losing some of their business to a doll. As for me, as a woman, if a man can't be honest, self-responsible, reasonable and hold a conversation, he's not grown up enough for me to be around him long (yawn), and that's a prerequisite before sex enters the equation. What people do in private is none of my business unless they are in a relationship with me - then talk honestly and openly or I lose interest. Liars are not interesting people and bring on too much drama for my taste.

I've heard plenty of men stating they "can't talk to their wives/partners" so they go to a call girl or another woman for it (I haven't been in the industry, but I have a few close friends and talked openly with many who were). To me, it's a cop-out to blame the partner. For some men, it's truer that they "won't" talk to their wives - too scared (if that's not revealing about how much power a female partner can have over her man). For others it's true that they really "can't". How do you know the difference? Say nothing and listen carefully, then ask questions. Easy enough to weed out the self-delusional, fearful, liars who believe something based on nothing substantial (or have ulterior motives) and those who don't. But, if you can't talk to your partner honestly, then you're in the wrong relationship or you're the wrong person for that partner (you're living a dual existence, and it can't be both ways, not for long).

As for feminists in the media (a bit off-topic but it was mentioned in the comments): Ignore them, please! They don't speak for most of us and make very little sense. The younger women aren't being taught how to be a real women - many are still fumbling or believe b.s. A real woman loves and wants her man to grow up and improve his character and life, and should know enough to be able to support them through it, without the man betraying her trust. People get all upset over these crazy, dumb ideas being spouted publicly, including moral judgments and debates on sexbots. OMG, society will fall apart now. NOT.

Please realize that there's all sorts of media that overwhelms the populace for women be a sexy, skinny (even unhealthy) to be considered a "real woman". And for who and what? For a perceived "group" of lower, baser, immature males who can't think past their groin (they hope) for MONEY. That's their bread and butter. Too bad more mature adults aren't explaining the details of relationships directly to young men and women. It's been neglected in our western society since liberated women burned their bras, got on the pill and went back to work instead of raising their own children (Thank you, Gloria Steinem - sarcasm). Furthermore, I can't tell you how many young women struggle with body image issues that has invaded their peace of mind for having decent relationships with males. My observation says that the media is merely brainwashing through marketing with ideas that mostly don't exist in reality. Furthermore, I've known plenty of men who have physical "standards" for a perfect woman, near impossible ones at that, always to the detriment of the woman. Yes, shut up and get a sexbot and stop making real women miserable, confused and rejected with your unrealistic, self-serving, imperialistic, arrogant voiced preoccupation - hardly an equal and fulfilling exchange for 7 minutes of sex time and lack of real love.

Here's a simple fact: Men focus easily and more often on sex by nature, but that doesn't make them all deviant perverts with "standards", as I mentioned previously. So, if you disagree with using sex-bots, then YOU don't get one. If you do agree, then get your bitcoins or credit card and buy one. I prefer not to know what you do in private anymore than a gay person advertising they are gay. I don't need to hear or imagine what and how others have sex in private. Why do people want all this crap out in the open? Did anyone stop to think that we ALL don't need to know, imagine and accept everything about others' private affairs? Yuk. No.

Damn, I'm still yukking and spitting over that pus*** march. As if that did squat to dignify women in the eyes of the world. It's Hollywood, media, socially, and politically motivated, so it's probably b.s. As if those modes are a good track record for moral, intelligent words and behaviors. Hardly.

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