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in thealliance β€’Β  6 years agoΒ 

Because I Have None

Cancelling the show this afternoon, sorry. I got a call at 4 a.m. this morning from a babbling blubbering sister that was trying to spit out some words I could barely understand -"Elana's dead." She was the oldest daughter of my sister-in-law - Lisa - the good sister. Not the druggie lackey parent of the three little ones I take care of from time to time, but the other one with kids the same ages (relatively) as my boys. I was a mentor for her in troubling times, so this is kind of a blow to my psyche.

She was a few months into being 19 and I don't have many pictures of her. She had just moved back in with her parents (Lisa) after a break-up. She was doing quite well actually, no more drugs and just the occasional drink. She had gone out with some 'friends' from work and upon coming home last night, said her stomach hurt. She then began coughing and puking. Blood started coming up with the vomit more and more and even foamy stomach acid. The paramedics rushed over and pronounced her dead at 3:47 a.m.

They are doing an autopsy as I write this and I will be heading to Chattanooga shortly for support. I will also be conducting my own investigation and may be off grid for a little while. Alpha wolf and all. If foul play was the cause, justice must and will be served, and not by some local authority slap on the wrist bullshit. At the @innerblocks, they say and ask what blocks are you made of? This is one of mine. Witty out.
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Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

My heart goes out to you and your family, hon.

Sending you so much love and please give a holler should you want or need anything. Please travel safe and may you all have comfort from the happy memories of Elana.

Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

What devastating, heartbreaking news...truly – there are no words.

Sending warm hugs... :(
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I am so sorry this has happened to someone so young and bright. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Here if you ever need to lean on someone.
Ren

Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

Holy crap, that is terrible news. Sorry to hear of it, stay safe... Don't be too rash.

oh @enginewitty this is so devastating for you... my condolences.. be strong we're with you in spirit.

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Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

Very sorry to hear that @enginewitty. Condolences to you and your family. Be strong and tcb. We're here for you if you need us.

We're very sorry to hear this news, please be careful.

I am sorry to hear that such a tragedy has hit your family. I wish you well and safe journey, my friend. TheAllianceStar-25x25.png

That is such a tragedy she was so young.
I'm so sorry for your loss love and I understand this must be Hard for you and understand you want to know what really happened.
You do so much for the People around you and Im sure you made a difference in her life to.
Stay strong and know your not Alone ❀️
I'm always here if you need me and my thoughts and love are with you and your family. 🌹❀️🌹❀️🌹

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IM SO SORRY YOUR HEART IS HURTING!! SOUNDS AGONIZING. PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH. 😒🌷😭πŸ˜ͺ

Sounds very interesting indeed.....Something she ate, either on Purpose or given to; in a product from the store... So yes, I agree very strange. Get to the bottom of it! You never know if it's A food product than at least theyll know to pull it off the shelf! I hope you get to feeling more like yourself soon. Much luv. If you need and ear. Just text. I may be sleeping because, well I'm an insomniac. It's what I do.

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Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

Oh my gosh Engine, I am so sorry to hear this. All I can do is send prayers and tell you if you need to talk at all I am here for you. Please don't do anything to get yourself into trouble. Your babies need you. Sending prayers to your family. May God bless you all.

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I'm sorry for you lost. I hope you achieve what you set out to do.

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I'm sorry for you
Lost. I hope you achieve what
You set out to do.

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That’s heart wrenching
So sorry for your loss <33

Oh my God engine, that's very painful. Even me as reading your thoughts how much she means to you, I can feel too much sadness. I'm so sorry for experiencing like that. My words can't change how you're feeling right now but I want you to know that I'm here, we are here.
Take your time and see for yourself what really is happening. Yes, justice must prevail. I'm so sorry for your loss and may God will guide you.

I'm really sorry engine for the pain you're feeling right now.

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Ohh god this is a very sad news my dear. Please stay strong and provide strength to the family also. Must be all so heavy hearts πŸ˜”
May her soul RIP πŸ™

What the fuck.
A few things come to mind.

  • Drugs (that she didn't take knowingly)
  • If she was drinking and fell on something, or got into a fight previous days and someone either kicked or she fell, and now that she was out drinking and dancing, something started protruding where it shouldn't have been.

Keep us updated on the autopsy eventually. I am so sorry to hear this and see how it's crushed your spirit.

Fuck. Thats the worst news. Heart totally breaks for you. Sending love to you and family. No words indeed.

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Oh my, do take care of things first @enginewitty , my prayers for you and your family in this terrible time.

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Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ (edited)

I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. Please be strong!

Oh no... I am so sorry.
I hope they catch who is responsible, because this sounds like foul play indeed. She looks like a wonderful young lady. My condolences...

So sad to hear this about a young girl with her whole life ahead of her. These things are always a terrible tragedy and I hope that you and the rest of her family can get through this terrible time. Sorry for your loss.

Ar dheis DΓ© go raibh a anam.
(May her soul be on God's right hand)

Jesus Witty. So sad to hear that. Though we will miss hanging with you today, we will be here when you get back. Go support and investigate and justice.

Thinking of you today.

I am so sorry to hear that... Really sorry for your loss... :(

Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

our condolences. prayers with you and family. I do hope you are able to find the cause and pray that her soul is in peace.

Lamento mucho todo esto, es duro para ti, lo sΓ©...

Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

Damn, what terrible news. My condolences to you and your family. Be strong.

Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

Oh man - I'm so so so sorry to hear this. So young :'( Sending strength and love your way. Hugs.

I am so sorry Love <3

Sorry to hear that @enginewitty; that's tough...
My condolences....

That's tragic. I'm so sorry this happened. My thoughts are with you, sending lots of love.

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I am so sorry.
Love You. Be safe.
You are surrounded by so many that love you. Don't forget to ask for help talking through this.

Sending strength and wrapping you in the warmth of a hug.

Sorry for your loss, condolence to you and Lisa. I am not good at saying alot for moments like this. But hugs and hugs and hugs. Do take care.

Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

So sorry for your loss, how terrible and in such awful circumstances. My thoughts and prayers are with all your family right now πŸ™πŸ½

Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

Oh man! I can't imagine the hurt you and your family must be going through. Sincere condolences, and love from this end of the world.

omg how awful. My deepest condolences @enginewitty. You and your family are in my thoughts. I have no words...

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So sorry. I hope you can give strength to her parents. Much love to you

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Β  Β· Β 6 years agoΒ 

oh no, I'm so sorry to hear about that sir enginwitty, that's tragic.

I'm so sorry. I'm just seeing this as I haven't been online as much as usual, this is just devastating news.

I am so sorry, and my heart goes out to you and Lisa and your family.

I have had a fair amount of experience with grief, and I'm here if you need me. And sometimes talking with someone who's not involved, and more or less anonymous, can be easier than someone you know.

Feel free to give Lisa my number if you think I can help.