On Saturday afternoon I witnessed a rather brazen incident of shoplifting at one of our local grocery stores. I will say from the outset I did not get involved. In this country there are repercussions for every act and you have to choose your battles.
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What struck me was the planning and effortless execution of the scheme, and what disturbed me greatly was the fact that a child of around ten years was involved. I was standing behind a man with a large trolley at the checkout. He did not have a lot of groceries, and could easily have fitted them into the smaller basket trolley. This was why I chose that queue in the first place!
As we were waiting our turn to pay, his daughter (I presume) came prancing up to him and showed him a boxed toy she had in her hand. He nodded quickly once and looked away. This caught my attention as most often parents examine the toy their child wants carefully before deciding for or against the purchase. The father then became completely engrossed in his phone, and didn't stop texting (pretending to text?) right throughout his checkout and payment. His daughter had stopped jumping around and held the toy in front of her, while simultaneously holding on to the front of the trolley handle. Then she simply pushed the trolley through the checkout with the toy in her hand, and they left the supermarket.
Another layer was added on to this experience. A security guard was standing directly opposite this particular till while the incident occurred. As soon as the child left the till area, I saw him quickly glance at me, to see if I had witnessed the incident. Something about me must have reassured him, and he relaxed.
The cover story, if they were caught, is obvious too. The father would have claimed not to notice what his child did as he was too distracted by his phone. The child was also young enough not be held responsible for her actions, though she clearly knew what she was doing. I found the whole incident sad, and emotionally tiring. We live in a world where dishonesty is the norm.
That's too bad. One day that kid will get caught and have to face the consequences.
I'm glad this didn't happen at your shop, though!
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I have enough of this shit at the shop too, though.
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Sorry to hear it!
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That was quite an experience! I wonder why that man was so sure that you wouldn't say anything? He's taking quite a risk. I think he would go back for more and he'll be caught next time!
Here I often have to tell people to queue up! Some people just ignore people queuing and just cut in. Most people don't want to have an arguement so they let that happen very often. If I happen to be there, I would certainly make noises and tell that person to wait at the end of the line. So far, I haven't seen anyone react as I did.
I think in your situation, it can be quite dangerous! People can react in violent manner when feeling threatened by danger.
Take care.
Cheers.
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It is so sad that is how the child is being raised. And once they are used to stealing, it feels to them like it is a right.
I had a group of shoplifters in my shop. I noticed that every time I didn't watch these women all the time, I would find empty clothing hangers. This went on for a while and I decided to just tell them they were not allowed back in the shop, even though I hadn't caught them.
They were outraged and took 20 minutes to actually leave. My shoplifting problem has been much improved since then.
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Well done for being decisive with those shoplifters! @onetree.
Yes, those children will forever be spoiled by the adults. Very few will think for themselves or question their own conditioning. The drive for survival is very strong in human beings and animals alike.
I still have to keep watching my own mind!
Cheers.
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I completely agree.
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Well said, @onetree. Reminds me of the old adage, "just because you can, doesn't mean you should."
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Though actions always have consequences....
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