Today i share you a tips/rules for a better marriage. As we know,or most people we know,ended up with divorced because they not happy with each other anymore. Cheating with their spouse is also one reason for having unhappy marriage..We want a long lasting marriage if possible, so heres some tips we can give you.
Never both angry at the same time.
- if both of you have an issue,dont let both of you angry at the same time, just wait until you are calm down and you can both talk about it.
never yell at each other.
- i know its like impossible not to yell when your angry or with an argument,but for the sake of relationship,try not to.
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if you have to criticize,do it lovingly.
- yes thats true,sometimes i criticize ,and my partner doesnt like it, so do it in a nice way.
have fun together.
- another good way to stay happy together is have fun together, do something that is both of you will enjoy. do some sports activities,go on cinema,have a weekend holiday, go somewhere nice,go fishing, have picnic etc..have a quality quality time together.
speak the love language
- acompliment/ppreciate your partner,show your interest ,giving gifts,serve,physical touch
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brag about your partner to others
-make you partner feel so special and proud
keep the romance hot and alive
-always show your affection,regular sex or having a good sex life is also a must. not only sex but also just showing your love like hugs, kisses words- i love you
forgive easily quickly
-just forgive and forget,you dont have to hold your anger for long time if you can talk about it and discuss
never go to sleep with an argument unsettles
- always settle any arguments or fights before sleep,it always happens to me,so im telling you this is no good both of you for your relationship
once everyday,try to say one kind or complimentary things to your life's partner makes them feel good
-anything that you thing your partner did which makes him/her proud and boost ego and confident
when you have done something wrong,admit it and ask for forgiveness.
always keep your promise
appreciate each other
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always talk and listen to your partner
always show affection
always trust each other
never brings up mistakes from the past
- it always starts the argument if you bring up the past again. instead ,accept the past and move on
build a foundation of agreement
make your spouse the number one- priority
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Even me and my spouse also not getting good,our marriage life is not so happy and just surviving. The honey moon effect is over. So for the newly weds new couples out there, try these tips for longer relationship. Nothing to loose but lots to gain. and can save your marriage.
Hope this tips helps your marriage/relationship stronger and better and wont lead for a divorce
Pls check my other blog post and pls come back bleepers for more tips and info.-https://www.thebleepers.com/blog/best-tips-for-a-happy-and-successful-marriage-save-your-marriage-relationship