I adore spending my time with people with whom I can feel like a kid. :) When we are laughing a lot and we make stupid comments about ourselves ;) With the right people you can do childish things or experience childish moments without embarrassment, but with a smile on your face instead. During those moments you will not get bored and you just invent new ways of staying amused and foolish! And I like to be foolish! I like to feel joyful! And free. And light.
I met Cathy in Tamarindo in Costa Rica. She was more-less my age, travelling in Central America. She just came from Nicaragua because she wanted to join her two “friends/colleagues” she had met sometime before on Ometepe Island. And of course, those friends were my friends as well, as we met in the Witch’s Rock.
I was sitting with those friends drinking beers and enjoying the evening as I have heard that Cathy will soon join us as she has just arrived. We clicked immediately. I saw those kinds of sparks in her eyes that genuine and friendly people have.
Around 10 pm. within the group we decided to continue the night out. There was a live concert in the bar on the other side of the street. The group was already playing, it was a mixture of reggae, blues, and rock. Well, everything I would say;) The band itself consisted of a few Costa Ricans and an Argentinian (who later became my ‘friend’, as he was a close friend of my Couchsurfing host; small world!). One of us, Matt, is also a musician, so at some point he grabbed a guitar and joined the group. So here we were drinking, “dancing” and having a good time:)
Later on, when the band ended the concert we, obviously ;), wanted to continue the night! Although Tamarindo is a touristic place, there are many restaurants and hotels, there are not so many good places to dance! So, because of the lack of choices, we went to The Crazy Monkey Bar, a huge and very touristic spot. There was a party going on, with several dance-floors, each with different music. Me and Cathy, we went dancing salsa, boys headed to the bar, haha. Because Cathy didn’t really know how to dance I found a kindly looking;) (yes, I will defend my opinion that sometimes you can say if the person is kind and good!) man to take care of her and teach her a little bit.
Boys got a little bit tired of drinking, and the fact that they didn’t enjoy dancing, so they decided to say goodbye and they abandoned us ;)
We continued dancing, were changing the dancefloors along the night and at some point, I suggested we hit home because I started to be sleepy :) She agreed. And then asked if I have ever jumped into the swimming pool, with my cloths on, during a party? I didn’t. And I knew that we had a plan ;) So yes, there was a big swimming pool, with lights on, “protected” by a wide tape (like the one in the criminal stories). And with the words “do not jump”. Haha. Well…
So here we were, slowly taking off our shoes and watches. We left all, including our purses, in one spot, we sneaked under the tape and jumped into the pool on three! I think (!) we didn’t make a lot of noise ;), but we started to laugh, probably loudly, so people started to look at us. Most of them were cheering and laughing with us. Quickly arrived someone from the security and demanded we leave the pool. We did, still laughing like little kids. We then heard that our behaviour is totally unacceptable, and therefore, that we are required to leave the party. Immediately.
We didn’t argue. We wanted to leave anyway. ;)
We spent a few more days together and then we split, each headed in the other direction in order to continue her travels. But, obviously, we stayed in contact! :) I visited her in the Netherlands just after my return to Europe. And she came to Poland one year later! I strongly believe that stories like this become lifelong bonds! This is what I love about solo travelling!
Thank you for being here with me. I hope until next time!
Pura Vida and enjoy your journey! ❤
Kasia
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I spent and still spend most of my time with kids. You know what? They seldom behave childish or the way you describe. Might be ofcourse I am in the wrong circle of people. Somehow I do envy you. I never been a kid, there was less to laugh or feel happy about. It was great to read your shining blog. I hope you will always have those people around and stay as happy and jolly you are now.
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dear @wakeupkitty! thank you so much for your personal comment. other people are just a help, we have to look for a kid inside ourselves. Well, this is what i think. And if you have this feeling of missing it, the kid is there, waiting to be rediscovered! :) I was always too mature and serious for my age! too many problems at home. But once you decide to let go, it will gradually leave. and leave you lighter! but it was a process for me, no miraculous. Good luck to you! sending love! :)
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I feel the same, born old, as an adult. Must admit my children do make me feel lighter and younger.. give me the giggles... I will not be young again but I am not getting older either LOL
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Thank you for your interesting story.
I'm also solo traveller.
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!! 😅 😅 Thank you for visiting me profile! i honestly feel honoured! ☀️ I know you, dear @slowwalker from the first days on Steemit, you were one of the first accounts that i started to follow!! 😅 😍 I hope you did enjoy my story, but now i feel a little bit embarrassed, cause it wasn't the best one, haha :) Solo travelling is sometimes tough, but it is definitely very rewarding! Have a great Sunday!! 🍀 🥂
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It feels really great when you find right people to be with,and in this case I'm as lucky as you are, I've best people in my friend circle on planet Earth 😍😍😍
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I'm blessed ❤️
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You'r a sexy girl. I love it
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Time to change ur glasses
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Hey girl?
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exactly! your crew looks really cool :) thank you fro the comment and enjoy your weekend! 🍀
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Thanks 😊
Wishing you good weekend as well. 😍
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@k-a-s-i-a if you are a traveler, than i recommend you to visit my blog once, I'm sure you'll love beauty of nature at it's best and maybe you will make plan to visit my country in future 💝
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I love being goofy like that too! I had a friend like this from Belgium. We randomly went around Barcelona trying to buy pet ducks
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haha, I hope you didn't manage to find them :P
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wow.....lovely 😍😍
nice post
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thanks for sharing your crew! cheers! :)
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welcome
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a very good post
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thank you!
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Those little, slightly mad, impromptu adventures are what lifelong friendships grow from.
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exactly! 😍
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Very nice post!!
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thank you :)
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Waoo lovely💕😍 post
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thank you :)
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Nice
💕👌❤
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thanks!
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👍👍👍
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This is the gift of travel! Not only you get to see beautiful places, but you also gain new friends!
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Lovely
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Excellent..! ;-) Good vibes and art.
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This reminds me of fun times with my mates on our costume day. I have some pictures of them here.
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haha, nice, thanks for sharing! :)
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It never hurts to have some adventure in life!
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;) it doesn't! cheers!
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Very nice
Glad you had fun. Love the pool pic. :). Joy
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thank you!
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