What to do if the child is lying?

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Most of the children lie in some way or not. But when you first hear your child tell a lie, you are very surprised. All parents want his child to speak the truth. Let's not know about why children are lying and how they can be motivated to tell them today.

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For that reason the children lie:

1. Do not miss the problem for some Dhaka.

2. To see how you react when they hear what they are lying.

3. To make their stories more exciting or to create a better place for themselves.

4. Even though he knows that you know the truth to get attention.

5. For getting something like - to grandma or grandmother, "Mother lol me before dinner".

When it starts to lie:

Since childhood, children are beginning to tell lies, usually from the age of 3 years. The child starts to lie when he realizes that you do not understand his mind. Children of 4-6 years say more lies. When you hear the sounds and voices of the child, you will realize that he is lying. When the child is in school, he is very lucky to lie. Then speaking this lie becomes more complicated because he talks too much and he understands what others think. Children at the age of 8 can successfully tell lies that others can not catch.

Inspire to say the truth:

When the child is big enough to understand the difference between Satyamitha, it is better to inspire and cooperate to speak the truth. Emphasize your family's need to speak the truth and praise your child for telling the truth. You can send him a message about honesty and tell him that he does not like when you tell him a lie. You try to tell your child something like this: "When you do not tell me the truth, I get very sad and frustrated".

Here are some tips that can encourage your child to speak honesty and truth:

If your child makes stories about something, then you can tell him, "It's a great story, we can publish it in book form". As a result, the power of imagination will increase in it, but he will reject falsehood.
Help to avoid any situations that need to be told to lie. If your baby falls milk from the milk glass given to your child, then and then you may be tempted to tell him if he asks him if the rest of the milk is gone. To avoid this, tell me, there is an accident with milk, let's clear it.
Give your child the story of respect or respect. If that happens to your child, appreciate it. So when he learns something new, his confidence increases many times.
Emphasize the rules and regulations regarding the acceptable behavior of your family.
When your child makes a mistake, admire him for it. Tell him, "I'm really happy to tell you the truth".
Tell your child to tell the truth about the value of honesty or read a story book, like the story of lying with a shepherd boy tiger.
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