Upvoting Satan: ethics of upvoting rapists, trolls, theives, and violence

in trolls •  7 years ago  (edited)

When people first start on the platform they almost always start the same way. "Follow for follow?" "Upvote for upvote?" Soon after they realize that it didn't get them very far. Then they try spending hours a few hours on their perfect post... it flops. Then they get frustrated. Then they think Steemit is a scam. Sometimes they even go after people personally that are making good money on posts.

"How dare you earn, when my post went unnoticed?!? I deserve to be paid. How dare the whales skip my post and award that other post?!? It isn't even talking about what I deem to be good, important, or well-written."

Sometimes they start confronting the whales. "You circle jerking asshole, how dare you upvote that shit content!" Sometimes it's true. Most of the time it's just a whale voting for someone they've interacted with positively before and supporting their content. Yeah, so, they go a little insane. Then they catch a flag.

This is the point all hell breaks loose

People from the outside world aren't really capable of handling negative criticism. They can't hold themselves responsible for their actions. They are used to causing harm and harassing people all day without consequence. When they get to steemit and find out for the first time that there are consequences for their actions and they are held responsible it's like they snap. They can't take it.

So, now it's flag war time, but these fuckin' morons don't understand stake weighted down votes.

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OK, so now they are losing because they started a flame war

Yeah, so they realize that their little votes don't do much so they just start flaming people. They go on posts, they go into comments, maybe they build bot armies. They say horrible shit about you. They start tracking down friends and family. They post all of that shit online thinking they are some empowered crusader on a holy war of biblical proportions because you held them accountable with a flag.

Ok, so now you have to escalate cause these fuckers are everywhere

What else are you gonna do? You're mad. They broke the rules. You were within your rights to flag, and now they go even further out. Worse yet, the flags didn't go down as you thought they would. Instead of outright nuking the little fuck now they found a whale that supported them. All the post rewards you took and all the ways you shattered their rep just bounced back and got more monies. So, not only did you not silence the critic, not only did you not take away all their rewards, but now you have a pyschopath with a whale backer that didn't exist before. So, while you're trying to escalate and nuke the moron that's clearly in the wrong. You're burning SP and wasting rewards on some little shit who keep getting saved.

First off the answer is deescalate

I found this out in my very first flag war. I dropped some nukes and a very clear psychopath ending up getting whale support and none of it went as planned. So, I realized even while clearly in the right that it didn't have the effect or consequence I was looking for. So, now while I still support flagging in the sense of self defense going balls out nuking isn't so much of a great plan. You gotta find a way to deescalate shit.

Stopping others from upvoting Satan

Let's say there is a massive troll that's up to no good. We'll call them not2good. And let's say they are supported by a powerful whale with millions of SP or for god's sake what if even one of the founders was supporting a well known troll. What do you do?

I think the trick is to undermine the whale support. Going all out on attack isn't going to have intended consequences. Getting the whale or possibly the founder if that's necessary to realize they are supporting people calling for violence, rape, trolling behavior, the death of family members, etc seems critical. Doxxing isn't ok. Calling for harm is bad. Literally just going deep into personal insults or involving family is way over the line.

Cause once the troll is isolated you're in a better stronger place, but when you nuke this platform seems to have a way to support the troll.

So, moral of the story from what I can figure out is when hit with a troll you can flag them, but it's probably best not to nuke them, because it calls in support of other people who think even troll rapists flaming every post with drivel have a right to speak. Violence in self defense seems aok, but when you switch to offense this place will rally for the wrong team. If you go too far, it's best to deescalate yourself and get the whale support to back off.

But please check yourself.

If you find a well known troll on the platform please don't upvote them, don't support their posts, and don't encourage them. And if you're a massive whale or you're like a founder with a ton of sway please don't spend a ton of your SP on saving horrible people on this platform.

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...and there are posts like this one of the reason I follow you @aggroed, thank you, finally someone spoke up!
We were talking with fellow Steemians that we need to write a post like that, but you got us all - much better, we're all minnows anyway, a witness is more accountable!

I've been on Steemit for the last 2,5 months and I haven't flagged anyone yet, but I have been 'harassed' let's say, or pushed - to upvote, to follow...at a comment, private chat, or as a tag at a public chat room. It's just annoying and especially infuriating when those people actually end up making money!

To be honest, the reason I joined Steemit and I like it that much so far, is because I didn't have to deal with all that, like on other social media... But then again, especially me, who went hiking in Trolltunga (literally means 'Troll's Tongue in Norwegian) I should know that trolls are -apparently- everywhere... so somehow we need to protect our reputation, even if that means flagging...

I will continue this long conversation at another comment, later on, or at another post if not in private, for now, thanks again!
Mission: Flag Satan
Challenge Accepted ;)

Agreed!

Crazy! LOL love that you tagged Satan. :) Sorry to hear you were in a flag war... hope that never happens to me, but if it does, now I know what I should do instead of going into war. Thanks for the heads up! Fingers crossed, I don't get trolled one day​.

Yeah, well, keep being a nice lady that'll help, but ladies on the internet also find a way to catch trolls. It's tough out there. Be safe.

awww :) Glad you think I'm a nice lady! :)

Haters gonna hate hate hate.... Players gonna play play play.... (Taylor Swift) hehe

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I almost went nuclear recently, but stopped myself...

I just ignore them, anyway how do I know other people don't think I'm a troll, or an idiot or any other stuff? I have only been flagged 3 times and the three times it was some person who had gone nuts and was flagging everyone, luckily with very low VP, so they didn't really do much harm.

Exactly. Some people just are here to vent anger.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself haha. Basically everyone starts off the same way, well for the most part and then we begin to learn , that's why they say , we live and we learn the hard way

It's very sad to hear thats even hard for someone with your popularity to nuke a troll into nirvana

How do you reason with someone who clearly puts no value in reason? How does a minnow make a difference? Do you just Turtle, pull your head in, ignore the attack and hope it goes away? I expect a productive Activie blogger would just walk away from the platform when faced with that kind of attack. Thought provoking post, thanks for writing. Also mspwaves best waves! ~Mr Dingo

Sort of. You have to make tough decisions - do I back down, or potentially harm my earnings or audience?

The perpetual sycophancy around here is a form of soft-censorship. If you choose to speak your mind, you are raising your profile and you may catch an attack from someone. You can't please everyone all the time.

How poor a life does a person lead when they have to lash out in such a way. All to true, that you can't please everyone.
Although freedom of speech is not a right to say what ever one desires without consequence. And should someone have their feelings hurt when others don't validate their opinion, immediately call it censorship? That's not how it works.

I haven't even really begun and I'm beginning to think the risk far outweigh the benefits...time wise.

It's a shame because I've made some new...possibly good friends from all over the world here.

Is there a place where these trolls can be named? This way noobs like me know who to avoid from the start.

O man you are so right! Steemit should be a fan place where people first enjoy without thinking about the financial rewards... seeing so many negative things here it's so sad! But we have to move on pass this times and of course always Steem on in a positive and original way!

Very true.

Steemit seems to have a positive effect on most people.

I guess we can hope that it just takes a little longer for the swelling to go down on the really huge hemorrhoids

Preparation-S?

Louder, for the fucks in the back!

A flag war is a ridiculous concept. The fact that someone is so fucking entitled that they believe they should only ever receive upvotes, and never get downvoted...

To quote the steem whitepaper:

Readers no longer have to decide whether or not they want to pay someone from their own pocket, instead they can vote content up or down and Steem will use their votes to determine individual rewards.

Excellent points Sir. Makes a lot of sense - you have buckets of patience, something I aspire to.

I'm seriously running out of patience and time here @gmuxx. This flag wars topic has been on my radar from day one..Something needs to be done or this social experiment is going to reflect the real world but there will be no diplomacy...no sanctions...no hope. :(

I personally don't give a flying rat's ass. If someone is wrong and challenges my position, I will never back down.

That's what it means to be right.

good for you @gnimeets...every war needs their dead heroes right?
I salute your willingness to sacrifice your time here. ✌️

I quite enjoy it here :) Doesn't mean I will change who I am.

I enjoy it here for the most part as well. The flag issue is a hot button for me.
But like I've been saying long before the internet...nothing is perfect and we work with what we have.

So yeah...I'm among the moderate to severely paranoid when it comes to worrying if the time here is well spent. The fun part definitely skews my bias toward taking the risk.

My apologies if my comment seemed insensitive. There's a disconcerting current I'm feeling while surfing the feeds...and no...I don't go to hot and/or trending. My own feed is my jumping off point...then it's...well you know. Right? };-)>

I agree with your thoughts. It's definitely best to attempt de-escalation first when possible. A reasonable olive branch first covers up a lot of necessity later.

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

That is a good way of handing people. 💪🏼🙌🏼💯

I concur.

I didn't even realize this level of trolling war was going on so regularly or at all to be honest. Maybe on your next post you could walk us through an example of deescalating a situation. Some of us learn best this way. What do you think teacher, shall I grab a note pad?

MUH KUBBY!!! Yeah, for you I'll make a post.

Aggroed, you da coolest kid I know. Awesome job with the radio yesterday. Don't tell Cork, but you were better ;)

hey Kubby...give me a heads up when he puts up that post would you? <3

I got you, also could you DM in discord as a reminder :-)

You're back in Discord Kubby? I tried you yesterday I think and got my words thrown back at me.

Or do you mean DM @aggroed to remind him?

I came back late yesterday, try it again. I am back! Missed ya too much ;)

Lol...i bet you say that to all us fish...flatterer you! }:-)>

Nice post. I'm hoping to never get in the middle of a flag war.

Don't see how that could be a positive endeavor for anyone.

You earned cred on the platform - the crusty old dude that has seen a lot and speaks wisdom!!!

STEEM On!!

DaveB

I support you completely in your thinking.

Thanks for sharing this post. I'm a minnow for sure and a newbie on Steemit, so seeing someone who's been there and done that, talking about life on Steemit is really enlightening. I feel like I have entered a new space/time dimension. :)

you have...welcome! ;)

It could be true but still we could not hide the fact that imbalance is among us. We are seeing the same names on trending page over and over again, which is a clear manifestation that whales are supporting each other and some users irregardless of their post.

Im not against it because its their rights, even if there going to vote their posts at 100% its not a problem with me.

This is just an observation.

Sad but true facts.

Hey, there is a guy on the platform who calls himself Vader, but as for Satan, well, he takes many forms. Seriously though, I think immature behavior on the platform is part of the learning curve. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt when they are new.

Flags and downvotes only fuel some "trolls". In real life, unless someone is doing physical damage, or sowing some dangerous discord within a group--in other words if they are just temperamental people prone to venting--it is best often times just to take it with a grain of salt, make light of it, etc.

seems like a sensible course of action...the best offence is a good defense...keep your head down, don't look'm in the fonts...and the like.

But what happens to you when they see it as a weakness and slam you and all your time spent here into the void of the deeps here?

Paranoia...cheep destroya! ✌️

Hello there! Ten days in here and tooke two to realize that I just have to be myself. Those people that complain don't even have the decency of reading the posts. I Saw a post a while ago about creating some kind of Insurance-Bank where their members will be able to protect themselves from situations like these ones, Hopefully Good always prevails; we gotta find a way!

So now they're brokering insurance? What a racket!
Wonder who's bankrolling that...any idea?

You got my vote and a resteem :]

True,Seriously thats the true ''Dark side" of Steemit

I am Cornholio! You will co-operate with my bunghole!

Well written @aggroed!!
Wow, didn't realize that down voting someone like that could actually backfire - that must've been a really rare case though...
I've been a firm believer of down voting someone if they're up to no good (scam, spam etc.) - do you know if any of the whales do this at all? Do they "waste" previous voting power on down voting?

It's funny to think of them as trolls. I've only flagged someone once. Yet I'm still new and I regret it cause they were new. I was even newer when I did it. Yet it was a post that should have been nsfw and it was hacked photos of a celebrity taken from her phone. By definition a no no lol. Yet I should have warned them first. I appreciate the perspective. I try to be careful cause I know some people take offense quickly and I know I sometimes word things incorrectly. Thanks for the warning. Hopefully I remember your post if I ever run into something like that.

Great points .. upvoted and followed... it's crazy there are these folks willing to this.

Am new here and from the first a meet the (follow back ) people and they made me thought its okay to do the same,recently i realiza thts wrong and annoying people so i stopped doing that shit

Is this something to do with the flag war happened like 48 hours ago?
The most interesting part is, all these wars and comments will pretty much stay forever in Steemit because it is inside a blockchain (as long as there is power supply and internet); wouldn't that be a good enough reason to think twice before posting anything here?

That would have been my reaction, honestly.
I hope that through this experience people around here (including me) will really need to think twice before the next step. This is a "once out, can never be able to be removed" consequence.

Something I have learned along the way in my life.

- No one can take away from you what they never gave you. It is you who gives it away.

So I guess being angry to a person that never gave us joy is our own responsibility.

- Only hurt people, hurt people.

So if we realise that, we can only engage with these people if we can help them out. Otherwise stay away / ignore / deescalate (like what you have mentioned) could be a better option.

I never flagged anyone, but I have certainly felt the urge to do so :D
I refrained from doing so because it's often not worth it with all the ensuing hate comments and retaliatory down votes. I'm a beliver of solving matters through dialogue in stead or simply ignore them in stead.

Fighting with flags doesn't always work as intended, especially sa there is a big community and not only you and the other person. Same works if you happen to get flagged yourself.

Luckily, in most cases the situation can de-escalate. Changing your approach might bring better solutions long term than pushing on with an aggressive all out attack.

This will also help others to see the reason for your actions. If you are merely flagging someone, others might not see the reason. Well thought explanations can hepl the person being flagged and others see what is the issue.

Being fairly new to this platform made me appreciative of this post. I've never really been very comfortable posting and replying online before. This is the first social online network that I feel gives me a since of safety to share. It's blogs like this that reaffirm this feeling. A good community should help each other weed out the abusers. I'll be sure to take your advise on handling trolls and predators in the furture.

Thank you. =]

i truly agree with your post,encouraging such people will let this platform to downfall.

I suppose there's no place for pacifists here eh?

Not that I'm one of them...just seems the power structure here has their own agenda...same as it ever was.

Just saying what I've said feels I've gone too far and maybe just maybe eye's on you @aggroed see me as an easy tasty kill.

FOS is no more. :-/

The point is to suggest calm and de-escalate and neither buy into the anger of the troll or the offended once provoked or... aggroed :) (small a on aggroed, but big A on Aggroed)

ok...I get it...and now I get your name as well

I'm usually smart enough to cross the street when I feel the need.

Here there is no course of refuge from the ire of a psycho_bully.

I find that fact continuously more worrisome. I'm certain many are holding back from giving their best here because of this pall of mushroom cloud talk.

Talking about this is fine...but to defend such threatening atmosphere by quoting the "there are no rules' clause is tantamount to allowing fear to rule supreme. Money talks and calls what's BS and what isn't.

IMO this is the main and most disheartening flaw here. I'm not saying that there is reason to stop what you're doing...and there is fantastic people and content here...but that's here...and now.

I should probably shut up now ...don't want to piss in the ocean too long...or too often.

Thanks for taking the time to bring this topic forward in your post. It needs more discourse...so a consensus toward action can be made...imo...the sooner the better. ✌️

Love, love, love the part about accountability.

I upvoted your post! I am following you!